CC & Gumbo
Both of you to separate corners. I’m going to jump in and state my opinion and I'm sure I'll regret it.
BUT CC, there was a flirty thread going on about this "date" in another forum, one you haven't read. Now, based on that thread, I think there was the opinion this was a "date." Of course when there is any disagreement, the whole thing stirs clear of the original conflict by piling on more conflict, which is what is happening here. Mig, maybe I am “old school” but anytime you plan on being somewhere with somebody at a certain time for anything (i.e. lunch, race, movie, whatever) and they are expecting you to arrive, it is considered a date to me. Gumbo was under the impression this was a date, and anticipated you to be there. :shrug: If you walk away from this thread with anything to think about or knowledge that next time it just might be considered a “date” by the other person, then you’ll know not to pile on your social calendar so full that things like this happen and feelings get hurt. Now, if you said, I have a busy schedule this evening and I’m certainly going to “TRY” and be there, go on without me, and if I make it, I’ll ring you up on the cell and find you, that is a different story. BUT, you called at 6:10 to cancel :shrug: so you could have only done that knowing he was expecting you. Right?
Mig, Say your sorry and be done with this. You are being stubborn.
Gumbo is more tarded than me, but I see his point, even if he has been over zealous in expressing it.