"So it is a matter of personal sacrifice for the benefit of my kids and also keeping the drive time down to work for my hubby. I would have loved the one in St. Leonard, big piece of land, needed more work but no HOA, so overall my belief is still the same, but the situation I have been dealt requires having to sacrifice some of it to get what I want for the rest of my family."
Sacrifice? I don't think you get it, but that's ok. The sum total is that you'll be forced to buy inside one and you'll come around anyway and realize how HOAs are beneficial, why everyone loves them, and why they are strategically built around your great schools and short driving distances to work and play; all of this unless you really miss your day glo purple siding, then you just sh!t out of luck.
Welcome to the dark side.
Sacrifice? I don't think you get it, but that's ok. The sum total is that you'll be forced to buy inside one and you'll come around anyway and realize how HOAs are beneficial, why everyone loves them, and why they are strategically built around your great schools and short driving distances to work and play; all of this unless you really miss your day glo purple siding, then you just sh!t out of luck.
Welcome to the dark side.