Actually, they don't drain you of your money. For what you get, living at Asbury is quite affordable, and seniors who live there seem to really enjoy and appreciate all that's available. I'd only hope that I'd be able to live in such a community when I retire - the peace of mind and companionship of other seniors would be what I'd want when I reach that age, not to mention travel, on-site dining, a pool and full service wellness center, 24/7 security, skilled nursing (should it be needed), home care services, daily worship, and the list goes on and on. I work my entire life - I am surely going to live somewhere to enjoy the money I've earned and saved.
And, itsbob, should an Asbury resident run out of money, they do not end up anywhere but their Asbury home. Asbury is a nonprofit community, and is served by a benevolent care fund - should a resident run out of money, their foundation steps in and pays for the resident to stay at Asbury (unless of course they intentionally give away or spend all their money, but in their 15 year history, that's never happened). So it would be counterproductive on their part to "drain" people when they've agreed to care for them should the need arise.