Asking How Someone Died

Hank

Hank

my war
Take me down
To the flopper city
Where the grass is green
And the girls are gummy
Take me home!
 
sockgirl77

sockgirl77

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Hank said:
Take me down
To the flopper city
Where the grass is green
And the girls are gummy
Take me home!
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But not too grassy. Bob doesn't like grassy.

And thank you. I'll have that shiat in my head for a day.

Oh won't you please take me hooooooome!
 
MarieB

MarieB

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vraiblonde said:
Can we just get real for a second?

Wenchy was the queen of TMI. If she could, she would give us all the details - gory or not - on "what happened". We honor her by asking nosy questions and perhaps even speculating wildly. Those of us who actually knew her, not just exchanged PMs but knew her personally and for many years, know that she would be thrilled with the attention her death has received. That is not meant to dog her at all, it is simply the truth.

Granted, there are some truly private people in the world. She was not one of them, and I doubt she would be offended by people asking what happened. She would more likely be disappointed if no one did.
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I have a feeling that she may have more "private" than you might think, but that's just an observation and I don't claim to know anything.

In the end, it is different in some ways when an online "friend" / " acquaintance" dies.

People want to know what happened, and when it seems "mysterious" they come to their own conclusions
 
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sockgirl77

sockgirl77

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MarieB said:
I have a feeling that she may have more "private" than you might think, but that's just an observation and I don't claim to know anything.

In the end, it is different in some ways when an online "friend" / " acquaintance" dies.
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No, she'd tell us her version.
 
MMM_donuts

MMM_donuts

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I don't think it's disrespectful, generally. Although I can see how it could be and how some might feel as though it is an invasion of their privacy.

I think it's a mix of curiosity and relate-ability. Curiosity especially when the person is young and appeared to be in good health. Relate-ability to empathize and better support the grieving.
 
kwillia

kwillia

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sockgirl77 said:
No, she'd tell us her version.
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She wasn't in good health. She started a thread in August giving some explicit details of severe symptoms while also being cryptic as to what the actual diagnosis causing the symptoms was... I do believe she knew and chose not to share with us.
 
sockgirl77

sockgirl77

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kwillia said:
She wasn't in good health. She started a thread in August giving some explicit details of severe symptoms while also being cryptic as to what the actual diagnosis causing the symptoms was... I do believe she knew and chose not to share with us.
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I can remember her self diagnosing herself without seeking medical attention but maybe I missed this thread.
 
Hank

Hank

my war
kwillia said:
She wasn't in good health. She started a thread in August giving some explicit details of severe symptoms while also being cryptic as to what the actual diagnosis causing the symptoms was... I do believe she knew and chose not to share with us.
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This is so disrespectful! I am done with this thread! :tantrum:
 
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