PeoplesElbow
Well-Known Member
This is my aunt and I address her as Aunt Luvmygdaughters.
That is very disturbing sounding.
This is my aunt and I address her as Aunt Luvmygdaughters.
Sorry,
Currently they call me "Blue" I would prfer Uncle Blue.
It's short sided to think the brother is being disrespectful because of how he is raising his kids.
Your statement implies that respect would be the brother doing what his sister asked, correct? You get the fallacy of that thought don't you? You don't think it's disrespectful for a sister to say she wants nothing to do with her brother's children because they call her by her name? If only "respect" was that easy.
Get over it. Be thankful for family.
Okay, they're your kids. Got it. Nothing more to say to that, except if you don't see the inherent disrespect in your (his) disregarding her requests to change your (his) children's behavior around her, then you are part of the problem.
Heard a street cop say one time "It pretty much comes down to a lack of manners. Most of the stuff going on out here [on the street] comes down to people displaying a lack of manners."
Uncle Blue has not yet addressed WHY he and bro have this obvious tiff so, without reflection, we're taking what we're told and assuming the rest
There's just more going on here and good advice depends on knowing more about the situation and relationships. :shrug: