Can't get over him....
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A lot of people have regrets for things they did or should have done differently but you can't keep dwelling on it because in the end it's only going to keep causing problems in any relationship you have. Even though now you think this guy was great, something did stop you from wanting more with him.
It doesn't sound like either of you chose to keep any contact w/each other or have made contact w/each other so could be a sign he has moved on w/his life, while you keep obsessing over him.
But I think the only way you are going to solve your own problems is to contact him and see where he stands. It can either have a positive or negative outcome. If negative then you need to put closure on the past and move on w/your life. I think when a relationship ends in many ways it ended for a reason - so maybe it was just meant to be.
sweetpea
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tyQueenofdenile1
Love is Blind
I believe that too, but this is different. She isn't telling the whole story. I wouldn't keep in contact with someone who dumped me because they had FROSTBITE and who hasn't bothered to try and contact me. She has three choices...Get over it, call him and talk to him or MOVE.
unixpirate
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AndyMarquisLIVE
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sweetpea
Bjo
Can you taste the Wrangler jeans in that yellow mus - tard
Why'd ya have to ruin it?I agree - there are (3) sides to every story (his, hers and the truth). As for keeping in contact w/people you were involved with everybody is different in how they handle things. It doesn't mean you forgive the person for what they did, but sometimes it's better to be civil then enemies. Like I feel when someone choses to hurt someone else, their day will come. Moving will not solve the problem.
PricklyGoo
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Actually if you look at it like that there's two sides.....hers vs his / the truth
and of course, woman are alway right. But either way people have a way of lying or keeping secrets. But eventually they will surface so it's better to be truthful.
DEEKAYPEE8569
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I once heard somewhere, "The best way to get over someone is to get UNDER someone else.
bcp
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I once heard somewhere, "The best way to get over someone is to get UNDER someone else.
I do not agree with you at all.
the best way to get over someone is to get used to enjoying your own company first.
first you time, then let someone else in. Being with someone in a live in relationship causes you to lose sight of part of who you really are. before you move on, you have to regain what you have personally lost.
ok, enough of that. I will now return to making fun of people.
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Beetlejuice
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Queenofdenile1
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I agree, but the difference is that we aren't getting the entire story. Hard to give advice because remember she's dated another guy (after Mr. Wonderful) for almost a year before she realizes that "Mr. Wonderful" is just that. Personally, I would think it wouldn't take a year of dating someone else to realize you screwed up. Why would she go to the extent of "comparing" the new guy to the guy she had Frostbite over? That doesn't even make sense. I'm thinking maybe Mr. Wonderful dumped her because maybe she told him she had Frostbite and he couldn't figure out why after 2 years? I'm still thinking she's lying about something. She hasn't made a whole lot of comments about this....hm?
Beelzebaby666
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I've dated at least a dozen Mr. Wonderful's.:shrug: Just mark them with a Sharpie so you can tell which ones you've had
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