Can't get over him....

Chain729

Chain729

CageKicker Extraordinaire
bcp said:
so, let me get this right because I can be just a bit slow at times.

you and Mr. Perfect date for two years, you go psycho and dump him.
you date some other guy for a year, then go psycho again and dump him too.

now, you want Mr. Perfect back so you can emotionally connect with him once again with the chance of Sybil popping back up and making you run off with the shelf stocker from Wal-Mart, leaving Mr. Perfect to once again lick his wounds, (or what ever else he can reach,, hey, hes perfect right?)

and, you kinda think that there might be a chance that Mr. Perfect will come back to you because??????

by the way, you mention he had the father qualities,,, Is this to say that you have children? how old are they and do they know mom is dating long term, then going psycho on the guys?


here is the advice.
Forget Mr Perfect, find a job somewhere that you are not as well known, then set up house, start working your job, join the church (pray for sanity) wait until the next guy comes along and just see where it goes.

by now if Mr Perfect is as Perfect as you claim he is, hes getting laid every night by different model type babes. He has moved on and is living the good life. If he has not moved on then you dont want him anyway, hes too clingy.
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Sounds like the long version. :yay:

BTW, Noah didn't swat the mosquitos because he was too drunk to do anything other than follow orders.
 
latinamomma

latinamomma

Transam's wife
tshowusa said:
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
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Well, here's the first thing, it's called a break up for a reason...think back to why the two of you split in the first place....why didn't you see the "wonderful" side of BEFORE you split??? It's very hard to get someone back after sooo much time has gone by. Maybe he has moved on and maybe you should as well. Seek some help ....in other words, share your feelings with someone that can help with the depression you may be feeling. Don't dwell on the past, and start looking towards your future....and stay off the bridge...no one is worth that! LOL
 
BEADELDOG

BEADELDOG

New Member
tshowusa said:
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
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Let it go girl (well I am assuming) if he was that great, you wouldn't have let him go in the first place!!

Get out and enjoy your life, someone great will come along, and if they don't at least you didn't spend your time mopping around.
 
Chain729

Chain729

CageKicker Extraordinaire
latinamomma said:
Well, here's the first thing, it's called a break up for a reason...think back to why the two of you split in the first place....why didn't you see the "wonderful" side of BEFORE you split??? It's very hard to get someone back after sooo much time has gone by. Maybe he has moved on and maybe you should as well. Seek some help ....in other words, share your feelings with someone that can help with the depression you may be feeling. Don't dwell on the past, and start looking towards your future....and stay off the bridge...no one is worth that! LOL
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Humans are the only creatures that defy natural order because we think that we're smarter than God. With every other creature, the weak die off and the strong produce strong, surviving, evolving, improving, moving forward so that the next generation has a chance to survive too. With humans, the weak continue to produce weak, while the strong give them welfare checks and write laws to protect them from themselves.

The girl claims to be 32. She's as functional as a 13 year old, by her own choice. Over the bridge is good for the herd.
 
slotted

slotted

New Member
tshowusa said:
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
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I can't get over him either. :bawl:
 
bcp

bcp

In My Opinion
HOLY CRAP!!!

I know the guy you are talking about.
I just figured it out.

do you realize that after you he turned gay?

I dont think you want him back
 
Q

Queenofdenile1

Love is Blind
tshowusa said:
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
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Okay, your leaving a HUGE CHUNK out of this whole scenario. You dated 2 years BEFORE you got COLD FEET? See, I'm thinking BS here. Didn't you ever think to just explain yourself to him instead of dumping him (presuming you did dump him)? Did he ask you to marry him? Did he ask you to move in w/him? What changed in the relationship that gave you FROSTBITE?
 
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