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kris31280
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Sometimes (and I can see the flaming about to take place) it's easier to give in to a child than it is to continuously fight... it's a matter of choosing your battles.Not sure. She just said that's what the kid wanted, so that's what she got. :shrug:
No parent is going to sit there and tell you that they, without fail, are the absolute power in their household and their child bows down to each and every one of their wishes. If they are telling you that, they're either lying or part of some freaky cult like family where the punishment might include death for not following each and every instruction to the letter.
There are some nights where my son demands a "num num" before dinner. 99% of the time I can tell him "No, you eat dinner first" and it suffices. He is, however, nearly 3 and is as stubborn as his mama, so about 1% of the time he won't eat anything unless he gets the "num num" first. In the interest of not fighting and being able to enjoy my dinner while it's still hot, I will let him have a "num num" but then he must eat his dinner, and he gets no bedtime snack.
So, long post short (too late!) if it's a once in a great while thing, it's not the healthiest thing in the world, but it's not completely harming the child. IF, however, it is an everyday thing, it's completely unhealthy and could be detrimental to the child's health in the long term, so I would say something so at least something has been said.