Controling ex-wife

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JEX

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I have a daughter with my ex-wife who has been totaly ailinating my daughter from me. I have been going throught the Courts for 6 years now fighting for my deserved and granted visitation. My ex refuses to let me see my daughter. We have done the whole counciling thing . My relationship is getting better with my Daughter, except she thinks and feels what my ex tells her to. We even had a Psychiatric evaluation done and the report indicated my ex is ailinating my daughter from me. There is no way I am going to let this happen I love my Daughter very much and would never dissapear from her life. Any advice or any suggestions on who I can contact for advice?
 
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misshelper

misshelper

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If you have been fighting for 6 yrs for visitation you are doing something wrong. When I left my ex our case only took months and was closed.

Do you have an order for visitation?
 
Elle

Elle

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I assume you already have a lawyer since you said you've been going through this for 6 years now. Remember you are the one paying for that lawyer, if you are not satisfied I'd find one that will help you more.
 
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JEX

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I am not doing anything wrong. It has been proven in the courts that I am a good Dad. It is my ex who is the one with a problem( proven in court) and I do have court papers. She just refuses to co-operate and we have to go back to court everytime.
 
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JEX

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misshelper said:
If you have been fighting for 6 yrs for visitation you are doing something wrong. When I left my ex our case only took months and was closed.

Do you have an order for visitation?
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I do have visitation rights. Trust me no-one has ever seen a case like this.
 
Qurious

Qurious

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u must be confused. u mean you've been fighting for joint custody? because i dont see how u can fight for visitation for 6 years?! something doesn't sound right.
 
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JEX

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Qurious said:
u must be confused. u mean you've been fighting for joint custody? because i dont see how u can fight for visitation for 6 years?! something doesn't sound right.
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Tell me about it. That is what everyone says. My ex is a very contolling person and it has been pointed out in an evaluation that she needs help and should be reconcidered in her professional position. She deals with children.
 
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RaspberryBeret

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Are you Stupid?
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Stupid for coming on here and biatching about an ex-wife that he claims is incompetent and has proven psychological problems ...... :whistle: wonder who really has the problem.

Look JEX, not all marraiges end in a "happy go lucky" divorce. Often times it ends messy with a lot of hurt feelings leaving deep wounds within the two people involved. Nobody will ever know the true story except for the two that got divorced (not their friends, family or anyone else that has heard all the one-sided stories). Coming on here and bashing her (not to mention implying where she works) is just tasteless. Grow up, suck it up and, if you really want a relationship with your daughter then take the appropriate actions necessary to do so. You are really showing your lack of maturity by biatching about it on here!
 
Qurious

Qurious

Im On 1.
JEX said:
Tell me about it. That is what everyone says. My ex is a very contolling person and it has been pointed out in an evaluation that she needs help and should be reconcidered in her professional position as a administrator in the schools.
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you're doing something wrong. maybe you should stop going pro se and get a better lawyer.

when's the last time you seen your daughter?
 
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sweetprincess23

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I will never understand why parents trash eachother to the children. My father did it about my mother sometimes growing up, as I got older I realized he was a liar. I feel bad for taking it out on my mother growing up. So I know it must feel horrible right now but once she is old enough to really understand what is going on I am sure she will come to you with nothing but love.

I personally have probably one of the worst baby dads but i would never talk down about him to my son. My son will learn it on his own when he is old enough.

As far as Master Harris, I think he is great but maybe thats because I am the mother. I never had to do the custady thing because the father could care less. But he really stuck it to my baby dad as far as child support, not that it matters he don't pay. But I have seen Master Harris stand up for fathers before while I waited for my case. So I don't have much advice as far as Master Harris.
 
misshelper

misshelper

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JEX said:
I do have visitation rights. Trust me no-one has ever seen a case like this.
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Yeah cuz if I had an order and my EX didn't let me see my kids the cops would have been called and then my ass would be at court filing papers. There is no reason for it to go on for 6 years.
 
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JEX

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RaspberryBeret said:
Stupid for coming on here and biatching about an ex-wife that he claims is incompetent and has proven psychological problems ...... :whistle: wonder who really has the problem.

Look JEX, not all marraiges end in a "happy go lucky" divorce. Often times it ends messy with a lot of hurt feelings leaving deep wounds within the two people involved. Nobody will ever know the true story except for the two that got divorced (not their friends, family or anyone else that has heard all the one-sided stories). Grow up, suck it up and, if you really want a relationship with your daughter then take the appropriate actions necessary to do so. You are really showing your lack of maturity by biatching about it on here!
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Maybe you have the problem.
 
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