Controling ex-wife

JEX

New Member
if u have visitation and at anytime the mother doesnt let you see her. as long as its in the court order YOU CAN CALL THE POLICE....she must hand the child over.

know your rights!

I do not want to do that to my Daughter.
 

Qurious

Im On 1.
also if she isn't letting you see her, make a record of each time and file a modification because she's in CONTEMPT.

you can't tell us that you're doing all this and you still can't see your child. :ohwell:
 

chevylover

PIP ~ My Baby Boy!
Then I would also suggest you file a contemp of court if you do not get to visit your child as often as your visitation states. As for your ex filling their head, there's not much you can do about that, but just love your child and treat them right and they will figure it out on their own. I commend you for wanting to be a part of their life.
 

Qurious

Im On 1.
I do not want to do that to my Daughter.

do what to her? not let her see you? spend time with you?

the reason u are having issues is because you're not excerisiing your rights.

it doesn't seem like you're trying...u just want to place blame.
 
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Beaver-Cleaver

Guest
do what to her? not let her see you? spend time with you?

the reason u are having issues is because you're not excerisiing your rights.

it doesn't seem like you're trying...u just want to place blame.

Charles County Animal Control said to get back in your cage biatch
 

BuddyLee

Football addict
I do not want to do that to my Daughter.
Basically, your wife knows you well...

...well enough to know that you don't have the balls to do what's right. So, she'll continue to do it knowing that she can walk all over you.

Frankly put, grow a set and do what's right.:yay:
 

JEX

New Member
do what to her? not let her see you? spend time with you?

the reason u are having issues is because you're not excerisiing your rights.

it doesn't seem like you're trying...u just want to place blame.

No call the Police with her there to see it.
 

JEX

New Member
Basically, your wife knows you well...

...well enough to know that you don't have the balls to do what's right. So, she'll continue to do it knowing that she can walk all over you.

Frankly put, grow a set and do what's right.:yay:

That is ex wife.
 

JEX

New Member
well do u or dont u want to see your kid?

if she wants to go with you the police being there isn't going to be a big deal.

I do love my daughter and love to see her when I can.I just do not want to call the Cops on her Mother with my daughter there to see it. As much as I dislike my ex I would never let my daughter be in that position.
 

sweetprincess23

New Member
I do love my daughter and love to see her when I can.I just do not want to call the Cops on her Mother with my daughter there to see it. As much as I dislike my ex I would never let my daughter be in that position.

In this type of situation the police aren't going to swarm the area and make a huge deal of it. Most likely they will try calling her first and working it out over the phone for her to meet you somewhere. Once she talks to the police she will probably just give in and let you have your daughter.

I am starting to agree with others, you need to stand up for yourself. I am sure your ex talks trash because she knows you will let her get away with it. If its a big deal... document everything, get a nasty lawyer and stand up for yourself.

How old is your daughter?
 

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

Well-Known Member
In this type of situation the police aren't going to swarm the area and make a huge deal of it. Most likely they will try calling her first and working it out over the phone for her to meet you somewhere. Once she talks to the police she will probably just give in and let you have your daughter.

I am starting to agree with others, you need to stand up for yourself. I am sure your ex talks trash because she knows you will let her get away with it. If its a big deal... document everything, get a nasty lawyer and stand up for yourself.

How old is your daughter?


:yay: :yeahthat:
And I think he said daughter is 10 :yay:
 

LusbyMom

You're a LOON :)
if u have visitation and at anytime the mother doesnt let you see her. as long as its in the court order YOU CAN CALL THE POLICE....she must hand the child over.

know your rights!

The police will NOT force a CP to turn over a child. A report can be made and you can go to court for contempt.
 
I do love my daughter and love to see her when I can.I just do not want to call the Cops on her Mother with my daughter there to see it. As much as I dislike my ex I would never let my daughter be in that position.

JEX, your ex is walking all over you. If she is denying you visitations with your daughter, go to court. As far as her filling your daughter's head with crap, there is nothing you can do about that. Just be a loving dad, and your daughter will soon see the truth.
 

LusbyMom

You're a LOON :)
I have a daughter with my ex-wife who has been totaly ailinating my daughter from me. I have been going throught the Courts for 6 years now fighting for my deserved and granted visitation. My ex refuses to let me see my daughter. We have done the whole counciling thing . My relationship is getting better with my Daughter, except she thinks and feels what my ex tells her to. We even had a Psychiatric evaluation done and the report indicated my ex is ailinating my daughter from me. There is no way I am going to let this happen I love my Daughter very much and would never dissapear from her life. Any advice or any suggestions on who I can contact for advice?

What is your visitation schedule? How often does she deny you?
 

ocean733

New Member
My mother used to trash my father. He never said a bad word about her, until we were in our 20's and he thought that we were old enough to make an adult opinion about the situation. When I got old enough, I realized that my dad wasn't the "bad" person and respected him never bashing my mom like she did him.
 

Jeff

Stop Staring!!!!!
Stupid for coming on here and biatching about an ex-wife that he claims is incompetent and has proven psychological problems ...... :whistle: wonder who really has the problem.

Look JEX, not all marraiges end in a "happy go lucky" divorce. Often times it ends messy with a lot of hurt feelings leaving deep wounds within the two people involved. Nobody will ever know the true story except for the two that got divorced (not their friends, family or anyone else that has heard all the one-sided stories). Coming on here and bashing her (not to mention implying where she works) is just tasteless. Grow up, suck it up and, if you really want a relationship with your daughter then take the appropriate actions necessary to do so. You are really showing your lack of maturity by biatching about it on here!


Agreed.

JEX, I wasn't trying to be nasty or anything but this has gone on for 6 years and after all this time you feel the need to come to a forum and lay this out.

I think with 6 years of payments I could have paid off the best lawyer in the country and I would have had my kids or at least had access to them.
 
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