dating your roommate

[Redskinsmama]

thoughts please

 

[lovinmaryland]

thoughts please

I don;t have a roommate:shrug:

 

[Redskinsmama]

been friends for years, lived together for a while now, moving to the next stage...very apprehensive b/c he's a good friend of mine, but he's wonderful!

 

[lovinmaryland]

been friends for years, lived together for a while now, moving to the next stage...very apprehensive b/c he's a good friend of mine, but he's wonderful!

go for it, you never know this could be "the one"

You both should try to have an understanding that if things start to get messy you step away so it doesnt ruin the friendship

 

[Toxick]

thoughts please

Do it.

 

[kom526]

Well there you have it. If both of you are happy then so be it. Why come into the forums and ask us how to run your personal life. It may work out it may not but you'll never know if you don't try. :readmysiggy:

 

[nanstime]

thoughts please

He has got to be a redskin for sure with a name like that. I think you will be ok

 

[sockgirl77]

Nope. Not worth risking the friendship.

 

[fedex]

I think its a bad idea, because I have been there and it didnt work, and we ruined our friendship.

 

[hotmomma]

Just set the rules on who moves out if it doesn't work

 

[Pete]

been friends for years, lived together for a while now, moving to the next stage...very apprehensive b/c he's a good friend of mine, but he's wonderful!

Sounds like the only thing missing as it stands now is the bangbang.

 

[vraiblonde]

Nope. Not worth risking the friendship.

I agree with this.

I suspect that Red and her roomie are merely curious about each other and the proximity makes it tempting. But if they had real interest, they'd have explored it long ago. As it stands, they'll bangbangbang, then one will decide they just want to remain friends. The other will be hurt by this and now there's a problem.

Don't do it, Red.

 

[Pete]

I agree with this.

I suspect that Red and her roomie are merely curious about each other and the proximity makes it tempting. But if they had real interest, they'd have explored it long ago. As it stands, they'll bangbangbang, then one will decide they just want to remain friends. The other will be hurt by this and now there's a problem.

Don't do it, Red.

You sound like an old woman

 

[vraiblonde]

You sound like an old woman

Let's don't say "old" - let's say "experienced".

 

[Pete]

Let's don't say "old" - let's say "experienced".

Old old OLD Old old OLD Old old OLD Old old OLD

 

[rack'm]

Nope. Not worth risking the friendship.

I agree with this.

I suspect that Red and her roomie are merely curious about each other and the proximity makes it tempting. But if they had real interest, they'd have explored it long ago. As it stands, they'll bangbangbang, then one will decide they just want to remain friends. The other will be hurt by this and now there's a problem.

Don't do it, Red.

Don't listen to them, bang him like a screen door during a hurricane.

 

[Pete]

Don't listen to them, bang him like a screen door during a hurricane.

Sounds like you have 7/8ths of a good thing already.

 

[sockgirl77]

Don't listen to them, bang him like a screen door during a hurricane.

Spoken like a true man.


Red,
Been there. Done that. Not worth it. My BF for 5 years and I have never been the same. It has been 12 years and I still regret it.
,
Socki


P.S. This is probably all pointless. You've probably already screwed him. So, it is probably too late. Obviously you are already having doubts or you would not be coming in here for advice because you are already questioning your new relationship.

 

[rack'm]

Spoken like a true man.

Spoken like a women that blew it like a tire.

 

[sockgirl77]

Spoken like a women that blew it like a tire.

I blew you? Damn. Wish I could remember.