dating

[rocit-44]

Tell me are we a group of people that look at sex as just something to do, or has the feeling of being attached a lost art.Is it so hard to just tell someone what you are looking for, and have a set of rule for both parties?

 

[jetmonkey]

Tell me are we a group of people that look at sex as just something to do, or has the feeling of being attached a lost art.Is it so hard to just tell someone what you are looking for, and have a set of rule for both parties?

[SIZE=-1]Um, the first thing - zilophone.[/SIZE]

 

[nobody really]

Tell me are we a group of people that look at sex as just something to do, or has the feeling of being attached a lost art.Is it so hard to just tell someone what you are looking for, and have a set of rule for both parties?

what is this thing you call sex?

 

[rack'm]

A complete sentence would be a good start.

 

[whome20603]

Tell me are we a group of people that look at sex as just something to do, or has the feeling of being attached a lost art.Is it so hard to just tell someone what you are looking for, and have a set of rule for both parties?

I'm pretty sure there are exactly two questions in this thread but there may be three...so, sometimes, no and sometimes

 

[latinamomma]

Tell me are we a group of people that look at sex as just something to do, or has the feeling of being attached a lost art.Is it so hard to just tell someone what you are looking for, and have a set of rule for both parties?

Seems like you are asking if we, as people, just want FWB....or if we, as people, want more and if people should set rules when it comes to new relationships/ FWBs...am I right??? Let's see if I can answer this...some people look at sex as just something to do, others don't, they do what that ever lasting commitment...and if you are up front and honest with the person when you first meet with them, then there shouldn't be a problem.

 

[Chain729]

Tell me are we a group of people that look at sex as just something to do, or has the feeling of being attached a lost art.Is it so hard to just tell someone what you are looking for, and have a set of rule for both parties?

What's the real problem? Find out your crushin' on someone that's too hedonistic for your taste? The only way it's a problem for you to speak your mind if you make it one.

 

[sockgirl77]

Sex is just sex. F**king is just f**king. Making love is just making love. Some just want casual ass from time. Some want the FWB for steady casual ass. And others, like me, want more. I want steady emotional rocking the house ass.

 

[toppick08]

Sex is just sex. F**king is just f**king. Making love is just making love. Some just want casual ass from time. Some want the FWB for steady casual ass. And others, like me, want more. I want steady emotional rocking the house ass.

 

[KWAK]

Sex is just sex. F**king is just f**king. Making love is just making love. Some just want casual ass from time. Some want the FWB for steady casual ass. And others, like me, want more. I want steady emotional rocking the house ass.

Couldn't have said it any better!

 

[Phina]

Sex is just sex. F**king is just f**king. Making love is just making love. Some just want casual ass from time. Some want the FWB for steady casual ass. And others, like me, want more. I want steady emotional rocking the house ass.

I agree. Hooking up is easy and there is no thrill in it. Looking for waaaaay more.

 

[cdrfunk]

I agree. Hooking up is easy and there is no thrill in it. Looking for waaaaay more.

In a society where women freely give away sex, compansionship, and children on demand, just what is offered by women that would make a man want to commit?

Women's primary driving force is security. Men provide their own security. Only weak men need emotional support. We are our own "rock." What is a woman providing in return for receiving the security of commitment? They no longer for the most part have wifely skills, especially the current crop of 35ish & under. I learned to do my own laundry and to cook on my own, so just what benefit is there nowadays?

 

[sockgirl77]

In a society where women freely give away sex, compansionship, and children on demand, just what is offered by women that would make a man want to commit?

Women's primary driving force is security. Men provide their own security. Only weak men need emotional support. We are our own "rock." What is a woman providing in return for receiving the security of commitment? They no longer for the most part have wifely skills, especially the current crop of 35ish & under. I learned to do my own laundry and to cook on my own, so just what benefit is there nowadays?

Love.

 

[Kain99]

In a society where women freely give away sex, compansionship, and children on demand, just what is offered by women that would make a man want to commit?

Women's primary driving force is security. Men provide their own security. Only weak men need emotional support. We are our own "rock." What is a woman providing in return for receiving the security of commitment? They no longer for the most part have wifely skills, especially the current crop of 35ish & under. I learned to do my own laundry and to cook on my own, so just what benefit is there nowadays?

You sound bitter....

 

[sockgirl77]

You sound bitter....

Just a tad.

 

[Phina]

In a society where women freely give away sex, compansionship, and children on demand, just what is offered by women that would make a man want to commit?

Women's primary driving force is security. Men provide their own security. Only weak men need emotional support. We are our own "rock." What is a woman providing in return for receiving the security of commitment? They no longer for the most part have wifely skills, especially the current crop of 35ish & under. I learned to do my own laundry and to cook on my own, so just what benefit is there nowadays?

If a man is looking for a woman with 5 kids, living in her mommas basement, 3 times divorced, and loaded with emotional baggage, more power to him. That's not what I have to offer.

Looking for a soul mate and the love of my life.

 

[Chain729]

Love.

is overrated.

 

[sockgirl77]

is overrated.

Not true love.

 

[Chain729]

Not true love.

I don't believe in fairy tales.

Dear karma giver: I didn't come home from the hospital with a rating. :shrug:

 

[Phina]

I don't believe in fairy tales.

Dear karma giver: I didn't come home from the hospital with a rating. :shrug:

It's not a fairy tale. Love is as real as the air you breath.