Not all men think just because you give them a cute smile or pay a bit of attention that you want the D. It's just nice to have a cute smile from a hottie, might even make our day. So ladies smile more often and give us a wink. I think if a women pays a lot of attention to you, those are the one who want the D. If a lady has no interest like someone said they go "poof" in the wind. OP says the DC ladies are stuck up. I thinks it's more of a business attitude and it's as if they have to try harder than the men, but over doing it, which leave a stick up the azz. When they get home I would assume the pull the stick out and act like your typical SOMD lady.