Did I screw up?

RareBreed

Throwing the deuces
Oldest is singing tonight at PES with the chorus. He has to wear navy blue pants and white shirt. I told him that he didn't need to wear it to school and that he can change clothes for the program tonight. I got an email this morning from husband saying that son was freaking out about it and that his teacher told him that if they were not dressed properly, they could not sing. He also mentioned to husband that they are singing for the school today.

Is any one else's kid doing this? Did I screw up and he was suppose to wear his "performance" out-fit to school or did I assume right and he won't be able to sing tonight if he's not dressed right???? I'm beginning to worry that I might have a crying kid at school because he can't sing for the students.
 
Oldest is singing tonight at PES with the chorus. He has to wear navy blue pants and white shirt. I told him that he didn't need to wear it to school and that he can change clothes for the program tonight. I got an email this morning from husband saying that son was freaking out about it and that his teacher told him that if they were not dressed properly, they could not sing. He also mentioned to husband that they are singing for the school today.

Is any one else's kid doing this? Did I screw up and he was suppose to wear his "performance" out-fit to school or did I assume right and he won't be able to sing tonight if he's not dressed right???? I'm beginning to worry that I might have a crying kid at school because he can't sing for the students.

Sometimes they have a performance for the school during school hours.
 

RareBreed

Throwing the deuces
Sometimes they have a performance for the school during school hours.

Yes, I know but they've always worn regular clothes for the school time one. They only have to dress up for the evening one for the parents. With what my son told my husband, I'm thinking it changed and they have to dress up for both.
 

jenbengen

Watch it
Oldest is singing tonight at PES with the chorus. He has to wear navy blue pants and white shirt. I told him that he didn't need to wear it to school and that he can change clothes for the program tonight. I got an email this morning from husband saying that son was freaking out about it and that his teacher told him that if they were not dressed properly, they could not sing. He also mentioned to husband that they are singing for the school today.

Is any one else's kid doing this? Did I screw up and he was suppose to wear his "performance" out-fit to school or did I assume right and he won't be able to sing tonight if he's not dressed right???? I'm beginning to worry that I might have a crying kid at school because he can't sing for the students.


Awww, I hope it turns out alright.
I remember working my butt off for a play in 2nd grade. My mother got the time wrong for the evening performance and we ended up missing it. It was over when we arrived. Broke my heart. Boy did I cry! Trauma, I tell ya. :lmao:
 

poster

New Member
No, there's nothing I can do about it now. I just wanted to find out if other parents sent their kid in regular clothes, thinking the same thing I did. Just wanted to ease my mind.

Call them anyway, perhaps there was a notice you didn't receive.
The teacher should be aware that he tried to wear it and you didn't allow it especially if he was told to. They need to know he tried to follow their directions.
 

RareBreed

Throwing the deuces
Then call the damn school and ask :buttkick:

You've obviously never had any dealings with the front desk staff of PES or you've been lucky enough to talk to the right ones. I called up and the person I spoke to didn't even know they had a teacher working there. Second time, they called me to pick up sick son. Got there and they not only didn't know why I was there but didn't know where they had put my son while he waited. Last time, I called to let them know that my son would be out sick two days in a row. Day one, person said I needed to let the school know. Day two, was told that I didn't need to contact the school.

Besides, everyone knows that this place knows more and knows faster than the actual place/person we're talking about.
 

RareBreed

Throwing the deuces
My kid is also singing tonight. She did NOT wear her performance out fit and she didn't say anything like your son said. It's never been that way in the past either.

That's why I was so surprised that my son would make such a big deal about wearing his good clothes to school. I just wanted to make sure. Would have made me feel bad to have gotten him in trouble with the teacher and then to set his butt straight when he gave me attitude at the bus stop for being wrong.

To your other post, yes I got the yearbook. I am looking forward to see it.
 
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