Don't give that to my kid...

vraiblonde

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migtig said:
Educational toys aren't a good thing? :confused: I have a friend who insists that's all that gets bought for her kids.
"Educational" toys are BO-ring. Just think how, if youd only received educational toys as a tot, you'd have missed out on trucks and mud and the really fun things in life.

I had a wacked friend who only wanted her kids to have educational toys. She also made them be vegetarians and wouldn't let them have sweets - her idea of a treat was carrot sticks. Her kids grew up to be drug addicts in their desperation to rebel.
 

Club'nBabySeals

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vraiblonde said:
You can't do that without sounding like a headcase, because that's a rather irrational fear. :lol:

I know. :ohwell:



vraiblonde said:
If you do the Migtig approach, you risk coming off like some loose screw feminazi dyke.

I like Migtig's suggestion about endorsing educational toys; but I agree that the bit on gender roles doesn't really apply.
 

SoMDGirl42

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I have a 19 month old that just LOVES playing with all her baby dolls and if it would help, I'd gladly remove all those offensive baby dolls lining her closet for you. :whistle:
 

Club'nBabySeals

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elaine said:
You need to think that far ahead.


The old dictatorship approach won't work?

Daughter: "Mommy, why does Becky Sue get to have dollbabies?"
Me: "Because Becky Sue is a creep."
Daughter: "Why can't I have a dollbaby?"
Me: "Because Mommy says you can't."
 

migtig

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vraiblonde said:
"Educational" toys are BO-ring. Just think how, if youd only received educational toys as a tot, you'd have missed out on trucks and mud and the really fun things in life.

I had a wacked friend who only wanted her kids to have educational toys. She also made them be vegetarians and wouldn't let them have sweets - her idea of a treat was carrot sticks. Her kids grew up to be drug addicts in their desperation to rebel.
I got educational toys as a kid - which is why I started rolling around in the mud. :lmao:
Actually, I did get a cool lab experiment kit as a kid. It was great - though I did blow up my swing set. :madscientistchuckle: However I know that my friend's kids have got these cool games that are interactive and they think are way cool - like a video game.
 

vraiblonde

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Club'nBabySeals said:
The old dictatorship approach won't work?

Daughter: "Mommy, why does Becky Sue get to have dollbabies?"
Me: "Because Becky Sue is a creep."
Daughter: "Why can't I have a dollbaby?"
Me: "Because Mommy says you can't."
Yeah, actually, that works:

"Because dollbabies are for dip#### little girls who don't have anything better in their future than to be boring soccer Mommies, swigging gin and gobbling Xanax to cope with their miserable lives."

:yay:
 

aosmiles

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While I do think it is a strange aversion that you have to dolls, you are the parent. You decide what you want for her. Just be prepared for family backlash. A doll never hurt anyone-unless a toddler threw it at a sibling, of course. But, seriously, how many age-appropriate dolls are there for an 8 month old? Not many that I recall seeing. So, if they are not age-appropriate, put them up, exchange them and/or tell family members to buy toys she can acuually play with at her age. One day, though, she may want to play with dolls and you will have to deal with that. Decide what is more important-your strange fear/dislike or your child's happiness in playing with something that is virtually harmless. Just my 2 cents-you are still the mom who will decide what to do from a mom of an almost 3 year old, 20 month old and a soon to be newborn....
 

rack'm

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aosmiles said:
While I do think it is a strange aversion that you have to dolls, you are the parent. You decide what you want for her to tell her shrink when the time comes.


:yay:
 

sockgirl77

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aosmiles said:
But, seriously, how many age-appropriate dolls are there for an 8 month old? Not many that I recall seeing.
:yeahthat: All 8 months do is eat, crap, sleep, crawl, and gnaw. :yay:
 

vraiblonde

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Club'nBabySeals said:
I don't like zombies, especially the "realistic" looking zombiesbabies. I think they're creepy, and I find it particularly creepy when I see little girls running around playing with them.

I also have an 8 month old daughter who is the only baby on both sides of the family. She is constantly receiving gifts from friends and family who love to dote upon her...and unfortunately, those gifts are usually zombies. I always thank the giver graciously as I would with any gift, and then hide the zombies up in the baby's closet because they freak me out. She doesn't know the difference right now, but I'm afraid that my taking her toys away is going to permanently scar her when she's old enough to understand what's going on. Nevertheless, I don't want her getting attached to any zombies, and the only way I can think to do that is just to remove them from her toy repertoire.

So how do I discreetly drop the hint (without betraying the fact that I'm a total head case or outright offending anyone) to family and friends that if they feel like being generous toward my daughter, that I would prefer they do so in a form other than zombies, or not at all? I feel badly that the baby won't get to enjoy their gifts, and it seems wrong to let them keep throwing effort and money down the drain. ("Just give her the zombies, you freak of nature" is not an option, thank you. :howdy: )

I see what you mean.
 

Chain729

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sockgirl77 said:
:yeahthat: All 8 months do is eat, crap, sleep, crawl, and gnaw. :yay:

You forgot: Scream, make noise, abuse parents, chase animals, pull everything of the coffee table, laugh and try to stand up.
 
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