This is really passing the buck, or shirking your own duty.
The decision is your own to dicide based on how you feel about it.
Saying now that you did it because "
we" said to do it is absurd.
We can not see the dresses on you, we do not know how you feel, we will not be the one at the wedding.
This is pressing the codependency thing by giving your personal power over to some one else instead of making your own decision based on how you personally feel about it.
And the fact remain that it could feel right at first and then get worse so you must make a second decision to keep picking dresses,
so blaming it on other people on an Internet forum would be absurd.
And if you are not going to blame us if it fails then why would you ask since none of us can posibly know how you feel.