justbeachy
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Tina2001aniT
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justbeachy said:My ex is renovating his (use to be ours) house. He's getting rid of everything even the kids stuff. My kids have stuff they don't want to part with but he doesn't care. He says that they have to find a place for it or throw it away. This is stuff like son's skate board, books stuffed animals stuff that was my mothers. I don't want the kids to have to part with all their childhood memories sooooo where does the stuff go.. thats right, my house. Each weekend they visit they bring more stuff. Basement is filling up! BF is being very understanding. Hopefully I can get them to go through it with me when they visit and only keep the things that are really important. Put good stuff aside for a yard sale and throw away whats left. I posted this just to vent because otherwise I'd probaly end up calling him to ask him why he doesn't care about the kids feelings. He makes me so madheartless SOB
TY that is all!
How old are said kids???? Where do they reside?
MysticalMom
Witchy Woman
Can't ya just rent a storage bin? There's lots of storage places around.
Ask if you can go over when he's not home and use his bathroom (hell, I guess he can be there)..... :toothbrush:
justbeachy
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19 & 17 with him but soon probably with meTina2001aniT said:
justbeachy
can be a real beach
I think his GF wants everything changedvirgovictoria said:
MysticalMom
Witchy Woman
I say......
Get a mason jar...fill it with milk and and a piece of raw chicken, raw fish and some yeast. Screw the cap on tightly. Place it in his/her closet, hide it way in the back where they'll be hard pressed to find it right away.. In 2-3 weeks that sucker will explode and smell the whole place up like rotting flesh.
Just ask my ex husband.
Get a mason jar...fill it with milk and and a piece of raw chicken, raw fish and some yeast. Screw the cap on tightly. Place it in his/her closet, hide it way in the back where they'll be hard pressed to find it right away.. In 2-3 weeks that sucker will explode and smell the whole place up like rotting flesh.
Just ask my ex husband.
<a href="http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZNskw006" target="_blank"><img src="http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/12/12_5_45.gif" alt="Toothbrush" border="0"></a>otter said:
or, should I say,
morganj614
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justbeachy said:
I think his GF wants everything changed
It is his house now and you have your own home. Your kids are also old enough to understand dad and or girlfriend want to clean and fix up the house.
justbeachy
can be a real beach
MysticalMom said:
I love it
You've got to be effing kidding me.justbeachy said:
You have a 19 year old and a 17 year old who live with their father, who now wants them to clean up their junk or it gets thrown out, and you are #####ing about this??? AND you are #####ing because they bring said junk over to YOUR house???
Get a clue. Really.
justbeachy
can be a real beach
It's his, I have my own home. Yes but he doesnt have to get rid of ALL their stuff. But thats ok my house will be their homemorganj614 said:It is his house now and you have your own home. Your kids are also old enough to understand dad and or girlfriend want to clean and fix up the house.
Vince
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Depends on the stuff, doesn't it? If it's junk, get rid of it. If they still use it, keep it. I make my son get rid of old toys he doesn't play with anymore. I give it away for other kids to play with. I will never understand why parents want to keep their kids old toys. My mother was the same way, she kept old toys of ours. Eventually her grandchildren got some use out of them, but after my parents passed away and we cleaned out the attic, my brothers and I were asking each other "why would they want to keep this stuff?"justbeachy said:
morganj614
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justbeachy said:
Stop being such an overdramatic whiny ass baby. TIA
Tina2001aniT
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vraiblonde said:
That was why I asked how old they were, but I got caught up at work and you beat me to it......But really, tell the 19 y/o to grow up and live on his own, and his house can be the storage shelter for his and his brother's junk....
