Fathers Spanking Their Daughters....
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nitwhit3286
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I don't spank my child, so neither does my husband. I believe you should talk to your children, spanking ultimately would be a last resort.
Chasey_Lane
Salt Life
If a father needs to spank his daughter, there must have been a reason for it. They have my vote!Qurious said:How do u feel about this?
Club'nBabySeals
Where are my pants?
If the daughter has done something that the parents feel merits a spanking, then I see no difference as to which parent administers it.
Toxick
Splat
nitwhit3286 said:
Yes.
Instead of spanking, I simply explain to my three year old that his behavior is unacceptable, and throwing tantrums will not only hinder, rather than propagate, communication between all parties involved, but will only result in more anger, and theforefore even further breaking down any desirable results for anyone.
This usually works for me because whenever I explain this to my children in a calm voice, they stop screaming and get a very pensive look on their face, and I can tell by this look that they're really considering what I've told them logically and rationally.
And if that doesn't work, I tell them that they're being a big hairy doo-doo face and they need to stop it.
Addendum:
To answer the initial question, I've spanked both my sons, but I don't think I've ever spanked my dauther. This is because my sons pummel the bejezus out of each other and slam into trees and shoot balls at each other and roll around and wreck their bikes, and they jump on and off of dad like he was a moving jungle-gym... so they can handle physical discipline without any lingering effects. But I think my little sweetie would break like a porceline doll if I even swung my hand in her direction.
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pixiegirl
Cleopatra Jones
cattitude said:I got spanked once by my dad. It just so happens that I was 17 and it was across the face.
I think I was like 9 or 10. It was after my mother stopped spanking me because it was ineffective. I RAN from my father which now as a parent myself KNOW was a HUGE mistake. I should have just stood there and taken it opposed to running and ticking him off more.
LordStanley
I know nothing
We started off spanking our son when he was at the age that understood what NO meant. When he would listen and didnt do what mommy and daddy said, he got a butt woopin.
We didnt do it hard at first.. but the older he got, the worse he acted up the harder his butt woopin was
Now all we have to do is give him the "eye" and he settles down. Every once in a blue moon, when have to break out the
in the back of the head when he oversteps his bounds or is not using his maners
But we dont spank him as much anymore.... He got the point real quick
...... If I had a daughter I would do the same...
We didnt do it hard at first.. but the older he got, the worse he acted up the harder his butt woopin was
Now all we have to do is give him the "eye" and he settles down. Every once in a blue moon, when have to break out the
in the back of the head when he oversteps his bounds or is not using his manersBut we dont spank him as much anymore.... He got the point real quick
...... If I had a daughter I would do the same...
