Cowgirl
Well-Known Member
Qurious said:When hitting, men use more force. A fathers tap isn't the same as a mothers tap.
There is a difference between a spank and abuse. Maybe your question should have been "when fathers spank their children, do you consider it abuse?"
To imply that men spank harder is stupid. And are you saying that boys can handle the "harder" hits, and girls can't?
ETA: When I was a child, I was spanked by my father and my mother, and I was more afraid of my mother.