I've been saying since I got out of the Navy, back in the mid-'70s, and began my (failed) foray into the dating market, that women don't know what the f*ck they want. I feel validated that a young woman in the 2020s says the same thing about her sex, some 50 years after I figured it out.
As someone (Kevin Samuels, maybe) said "there is what women think they want; what they say they want, and what they respond to.
The three are 99/100 not the same.
Also, I watched ShoeonHead's video about women and rejection; they not only do not take it well, but they often lash out at it in very inappropriate ways.
I've seen other videos with men saying exactly the same thing. If your much-vaunted "intuition" is so all that, why is it that you make so many bad decisions?
What they say they want; what they think they want; what makes their quim quiver.