flirting when married

vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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Depends. Some people are naturally flirty and it's just the way they are - completely harmless. Then there are those - like me - who only flirt when they mean business, and therefore wouldn't do it while married. I don't know as marital happiness really has anything to do with it. It's more of a personality thing.
 
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sweetandsassy

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vraiblonde said:
Depends. Some people are naturally flirty and it's just the way they are - completely harmless. Then there are those - like me - who only flirt when they mean business, and therefore wouldn't do it while married. I don't know as marital happiness really has anything to do with it. It's more of a personality thing.
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well, I know that if I were to flirt with a man, on here or anywhere else, it would hurt him and he would be irrate. why would I do that if I was happy in the relationship? why risk it?
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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sweetandsassy said:
well, I know that if I were to flirt with a man, on here or anywhere else, it would hurt him and he would be irrate. why would I do that if I was happy in the relationship? why risk it?
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I think if you're in a committed relationship and you ask your SO to not flirt with other people, he/she should honor that. But some people think everything is flirting, even just friendly conversation, and get jealous when nothing was meant by it.

If you've asked him to stop and he blows you off, it's time to re-evaluate the relationship. :shrug:
 
Justme2

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vraiblonde said:
I think if you're in a committed relationship and you ask your SO to not flirt with other people, he/she should honor that. But some people think everything is flirting, even just friendly conversation, and get jealous when nothing was meant by it.

If you've asked him to stop and he blows you off, it's time to re-evaluate the relationship. :shrug:
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So if your SO is having friendly conversation to be lets say be "Polite" and you asked them to stop and they do not. Its time to be jealous or get a divorce or break up or have an argument because you think the friendly conversation is "Flirting" or the other person could be "flirting" with your SO. And that would be OK to have a problem with them too. Because you don't trust your SO???:shrug:
 
thurley42

thurley42

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Justme2 said:
So if your SO is having friendly conversation to be lets say be "Polite" and you asked them to stop and they do not. Its time to be jealous or get a divorce or break up or have an argument because you think the friendly conversation is "Flirting" or the other person could be "flirting" with your SO. And that would be OK to have a problem with them too. Because you don't trust your SO???:shrug:
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I'm really having a hard time deciphering that...
 
HappyCats

HappyCats

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Justme2 said:
So if your SO is having friendly conversation to be lets say be "Polite" and you asked them to stop and they do not. Its time to be jealous or get a divorce or break up or have an argument because you think the friendly conversation is "Flirting" or the other person could be "flirting" with your SO. And that would be OK to have a problem with them too. Because you don't trust your SO???:shrug:
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Dr. Seuss, is that you??? :confused:
 
PJumper

PJumper

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vraiblonde said:
I think if you're in a committed relationship and you ask your SO to not flirt with other people, he/she should honor that. But some people think everything is flirting, even just friendly conversation, and get jealous when nothing was meant by it.

If you've asked him to stop and he blows you off, it's time to re-evaluate the relationship. :shrug:
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Not because a man or a woman talks to members of opposite sex means they're flirting. I have friends way back in my teen years that I still communicate from time to time. It doesn't mean that something is going on between us, we just enjoy talking about the old days. They are also my confidants and support group that I can turn to if and when my wife and I are having misunderstanding. They let me see her view.

If my wife would tell me to stop talking to them, then we'll have issues.
 
Hoover

Hoover

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I flirt all the time. In front of my hubby, behind my hubby - who cares. Its my personality. I am a flirt-a-holic. I will flirt with any one of any age, race, color, creed, religion, or nationality. If it gets me what I want - I will flirt to get it.:yahoo:​
 
bcp

bcp

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I dont flirt.
But I did have some babe grab my butt at a camper show once. Almost hit my head on the ceiling I jumped so high.
 
MMDad

MMDad

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vraiblonde said:
I think if you're in a committed relationship and you ask your SO to not flirt with other people, he/she should honor that. But some people think everything is flirting, even just friendly conversation, and get jealous when nothing was meant by it.

If you've asked him to stop and he blows you off, it's time to re-evaluate the relationship. :shrug:
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By the time you go from "dating" to "being in a committed relationship" you should know your SO well enough to understand what hurts them and what is okay with them. That's where the line should be drawn.

I have a friend who gets in trouble because a woman he works with is hot. His wife is that insecure.

On the other hand my wife has no problem with me flirting or telling her about hotties. She'll even point out the good eye candy if I miss it. Now I just need to find someone to flirt with.....
 
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