flirting when married

Bann

Bann

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vraiblonde said:
Depends. Some people are naturally flirty and it's just the way they are - completely harmless. Then there are those - like me - who only flirt when they mean business, and therefore wouldn't do it while married. I don't know as marital happiness really has anything to do with it. It's more of a personality thing.
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I think you're right about that. Some people are just naturally flirty and it's harmless fun. I never flirted while I was married, as it wasn't in my nature. I don't flirt with married guys either.

And if it bothers a spouse or SO, then the flirter should respect that and not do it.
 
bcp

bcp

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Bann said:
I think you're right about that. Some people are just naturally flirty and it's harmless fun. I never flirted while I was married, as it wasn't in my nature. I don't flirt with married guys either.

And if it bothers a spouse or SO, then the flirter should respect that and not do it.
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I dont flirt with married guys either.
 
Hoover

Hoover

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Flirting is good for you - it shows you are confident in yourself and your marriage. Its flirting not sex get over it and get over yourself about it.
 
bcp

bcp

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Hoover said:
Flirting is good for you - it shows you are confident in yourself and your marriage. Its flirting not sex get over it and get over yourself about it.
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Looking is ok too as long as nothing but your eyes wander...
 
libertytyranny

libertytyranny

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SO is a huge flirt. It doesn't really bother me..he's just that kinda person. And I am not against flirting to get free drinks or discounts on stuff, and I flirt a bit at work, it's good for morale :killingme

But there is a difference between flirting, ie light chatter, joking with each other etc, and coming on to someone.
 
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bcp said:
I dont flirt.
But I did have some babe grab my butt at a camper show once. Almost hit my head on the ceiling I jumped so high.
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yeah I had that happen in a bar one night ........ I was leaning against the bar (guess my ass was sticking out ..... ) when I felt this hand slid up my butt ... :yahoo: I turned around there were these 2 very cute girls standing there .... the girl with the dark brown her, with a guilty grin stated, well it was sticking out there .... and walked off with her friend :whistle:


I should have chased after her, but I was just in too much shock to do anything but start (with a big stupid grin on my face) as they walked off ....


:doh:
 
Cowgirl

Cowgirl

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I'm not a huge flirt. I am friendly, but the thought of actually flirting with someone creeps me out. And if someone flirts with me, I usually don't flirt back because that creeps me out too. :shrug:
 
Justme2

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Bann said:
Me3!


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:yay: Too funny!
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Originally Posted by vraiblonde
I think if you're in a committed relationship and you ask your SO to not flirt with other people, he/she should honor that. But some people think everything is flirting, even just friendly conversation, and get jealous when nothing was meant by it.
If you've asked him to stop and he blows you off, it's time to re-evaluate the relationship

OK now if your SO ask you not to Flirt and in your opinion you are just having a conversation but in their opinion it is more than that. That the other person is FLIRTING, COMING ON, LEADING you on to Low cut tops or sliding of hands or buying one to many drinks for JUST YOU. And you think it's OK and your partner does not. Than I guess it is OK to have argument, get a divorce, re evaluate your relationship????????????????????????????
 
lovinmaryland

lovinmaryland

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vraiblonde said:
Depends. Some people are naturally flirty and it's just the way they are - completely harmless. Then there are those - like me - who only flirt when they mean business, and therefore wouldn't do it while married. I don't know as marital happiness really has anything to do with it. It's more of a personality thing.
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I agree w/ this. Some people dont even realize they are flirting, while others may notice. You just have to know and trust the person you are with.
 
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