She's hurting, hubby left her for the waitress that was only being nice and flirting a bit to get a larger tip.
yeah, but did you see the [fill in favorite here] on that waitress??? Who could blame him?
flirting when married
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yeah, but did you see the [fill in favorite here] on that waitress??? Who could blame him?
Otter
Nothing to see here
Vrailblonde....Really? You think? Are you that secure? Hmmm!!! NOBODY CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INSECURE? I WOULDN'T BET ON THAT!!! You come across as being arrogant and have a "I don't give a damn" attitude. People who who believe they are THAT SECURE generally are proven wrong at some point in life. I believe it's called "TAKING PEOPLE FOR GRANTED".
So, since Vrailblonde is right and everyone is in agreement, lets all look at flirting AS ACCEPTABLE and we should ALL FLIRT w/EVERYONE ELSES HUSBAND AND WIFE because it makes us feel like we haven't lost our touch. It boosts OUR SELF-ESTEEM (oh wait, thats right, WE ALREADY HAVE SELF-ESTEEM because were secure w/ourselves). Oh well, then we flirt to just upset the innocent people WHO DIDN'T ASK FOR IT IN THE FIRST PLACE. Hey, it's a good reason to flirt. Right? That way it gives all of us FLIRTS a reason to beat over the head how Joe/Jane Schmo's spouse is SO INSECURE, while Joe/Jane Schmo is batting their eyes at us and humiliating their spouse. Makes great sense to me. Hail to Vrai
You tell her, Schmoopy
PrepH4U
New Member
cattitude
My Sweetest Boy
She's hurting, hubby left her for the waitress that was only being nice and flirting a bit to get a larger tip.
large tip....ah..that is the problem....
PrepH4U
New Member
Justme2
Member
This will help me though
Thanks for the links, as far as feeling what ever I had a relationship where the person told me that they loved me but not in that way any more and they couldn't help they way they felt
And by the way " Nice fur"
It's not her!!! It's everyone else!!
Thanks for the links, as far as feeling what ever I had a relationship where the person told me that they loved me but not in that way any more and they couldn't help they way they felt
And by the way " Nice fur"
DEEKAYPEE8569
Well-Known Member
Women get away with so much stuff, money, jobs, drinks, etc etc etc,,, just because they got T and A. I am going to get a sex change dammit
GOOD GOD! THERE'S an image I'll have a tough time getting out of my head now!
I just remembered those, If so-and-so and what's-his-name had a child what would it look like?.....the one's that Howdy Doody, I mean, Conan O'Brien used to do.
DEEKAYPEE8569
Well-Known Member
My personal opinion on flirting as a single person, it's fine. Flirt w/single people. As a married person, why do you feel the need to flirt? You can view it as being "CONFIDENT" which is a load of crap. All it does is CREATE insecurities in your SO. It means you need attention from someone other than your spouse OR you aren't getting any attention from your spouse! It means you really aren't that happy in the relationship and there are some issues. Sometimes...there are those people who just do it to get a reaction from their spouse. They WANT them to be jealous... perhaps to show they care and give a damn. One sure way to make your SO insecure, flirt with other people. Think about it people. You should be "CONFIDENT" that your spouse is true blue and has absolutely no reason to flirt with other people. As soon as the flirting begins...it raises a red flag!!! DUH!!
Hey.....how YOU doin'? /
:-D
StrawberryGal
Sweet and Innocent
I thinks someone fell off the rocker and hit her head badly on the porch floor.
Vrailblonde....Really? You think? Are you that secure? Hmmm!!! NOBODY CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INSECURE? I WOULDN'T BET ON THAT!!! You come across as being arrogant and have a "I don't give a damn" attitude. People who who believe they are THAT SECURE generally are proven wrong at some point in life. I believe it's called "TAKING PEOPLE FOR GRANTED".
So, since Vrailblonde is right and everyone is in agreement, lets all look at flirting AS ACCEPTABLE and we should ALL FLIRT w/EVERYONE ELSES HUSBAND AND WIFE because it makes us feel like we haven't lost our touch. It boosts OUR SELF-ESTEEM (oh wait, thats right, WE ALREADY HAVE SELF-ESTEEM because were secure w/ourselves). Oh well, then we flirt to just upset the innocent people WHO DIDN'T ASK FOR IT IN THE FIRST PLACE. Hey, it's a good reason to flirt. Right? That way it gives all of us FLIRTS a reason to beat over the head how Joe/Jane Schmo's spouse is SO INSECURE, while Joe/Jane Schmo is batting their eyes at us and humiliating their spouse. Makes great sense to me. Hail to Vrai
You keep that up and the doc is gonna up your meds...
CRoyal
Infinite Impetus
Vrailblonde....Really? You think? Are you that secure? Hmmm!!! NOBODY CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INSECURE? I WOULDN'T BET ON THAT!!! You come across as being arrogant and have a "I don't give a damn" attitude. People who who believe they are THAT SECURE generally are proven wrong at some point in life. I believe it's called "TAKING PEOPLE FOR GRANTED".
So, since Vrailblonde is right and everyone is in agreement, lets all look at flirting AS ACCEPTABLE and we should ALL FLIRT w/EVERYONE ELSES HUSBAND AND WIFE because it makes us feel like we haven't lost our touch. It boosts OUR SELF-ESTEEM (oh wait, thats right, WE ALREADY HAVE SELF-ESTEEM because were secure w/ourselves). Oh well, then we flirt to just upset the innocent people WHO DIDN'T ASK FOR IT IN THE FIRST PLACE. Hey, it's a good reason to flirt. Right? That way it gives all of us FLIRTS a reason to beat over the head how Joe/Jane Schmo's spouse is SO INSECURE, while Joe/Jane Schmo is batting their eyes at us and humiliating their spouse. Makes great sense to me. Hail to Vrai
You're broken.
That's master debater, dear.
I'm not worthy.
I need a lot more practice before I reach that level.
This was an AWESOME meltdown!Vrailblonde....Really? You think? Are you that secure? Hmmm!!! NOBODY CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INSECURE? I WOULDN'T BET ON THAT!!! You come across as being arrogant and have a "I don't give a damn" attitude. People who who believe they are THAT SECURE generally are proven wrong at some point in life. I believe it's called "TAKING PEOPLE FOR GRANTED".
So, since Vrailblonde is right and everyone is in agreement, lets all look at flirting AS ACCEPTABLE and we should ALL FLIRT w/EVERYONE ELSES HUSBAND AND WIFE because it makes us feel like we haven't lost our touch. It boosts OUR SELF-ESTEEM (oh wait, thats right, WE ALREADY HAVE SELF-ESTEEM because were secure w/ourselves). Oh well, then we flirt to just upset the innocent people WHO DIDN'T ASK FOR IT IN THE FIRST PLACE. Hey, it's a good reason to flirt. Right? That way it gives all of us FLIRTS a reason to beat over the head how Joe/Jane Schmo's spouse is SO INSECURE, while Joe/Jane Schmo is batting their eyes at us and humiliating their spouse. Makes great sense to me. Hail to Vrai
Railroad
Routinely Derailed
A touch of any kind (verbal or not) can do wonders for married people who aren't getting what they need at home. Some of us are starving for anything we can get. Look at the idea of a spouse whose paralysis clamps her legs together, or a spouse whose disease makes his noodle shrink beyond revival. Serious business, not fun and games. There are no meds to undo some things. Those of us who married healthy mates and now are married to those who can do nothing, are a bit sensitive about this stuff. Flirting is stimulating and entertaining when you're sitting in the many-years-long waiting room next to the one who used to be your spouse.
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Railroad
Routinely Derailed
WOW! You used a wonderful basis for thought: Trust. Unfortunately, I'll bet that most mates don't have 100% trust in each other. Being protective of your relationship is not the same as jealousy because the latter has written into it your desire to BE the "intruder." (Think about that for awhile). Being protective of the relationship involves helping your mate get back in touch with the terms of your relationship (originally spoken or not). This should be done in a loving but firm way.
The seemingly contradictory reaction is when one mate is no longer able to give what the other needs. Over a long period of time, it will be beneficial to the fully-functioning mate to be bolstered by what someone outside the marriage might say. Preferably the source is God, speaking through a friend, but sometimes the source is dangerous to say the least.
Remember that marriage is a sacred union which is not to be broken; flirting is inherently dangerous, but like some poisons, in small doses, can be very beneficial.
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