LadyWolf
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I'm sorry you're confused. I didn't say either...read it again.
flirting when married
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I'm sorry you're confused. I didn't say either...read it again.
LadyWolf
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People flirt because it is fun, relieves stress, and puts you in a good mood. It's not like they are getting a BJ in a men's bathroom. According to you, smiling back at someone is flirting...might as well go to lovedoll.com and get a detachable penis if you want a robot instead of a human being.
Then if flirting is so fun....then don't get married!! Go to some singles club and have at it all you want. Take them all home if you want...I don't give a damn. As long as my man doesn't flirt w/you... it's all good baby.
You all have your opinion and that's fine. I'm quite certain if any of you found your spouses flirting and that INNOCENT FLIRTING became something more,we'll see who is
Larry Gude is an enormous flirt and if he'd mooshy mooshied with every woman he's ever flirted with, I'm pretty sure he would have no time for anything else and I'd have noticed.
Whatever works for you is fine, but I personally do not put a lot of serious stock in flirting.
Ahhhh
I'm going to make that my sig line...
LOL..The irony is dripping off that juxtaposition so fast that better go fetch a bucket...
LadyWolf
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Well, I understand, but people who have been cheated on actually put a lot of stock in flirting because it can lead to something else. I personally wouldn't marry someone who was a flirt...TOO RISKY AND STAKES ARE TOO HIGH.
I have been cheated on by flirts and non-flirts. In fact, one particular non-flirt was somewhat of a serial cheater. So I don't believe flirting has anything to do with fidelity.
Otter
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LadyWolf
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I find it interesting how women zero in on other women when husbands/BF's are involved. Could be just a conversation and buddy, women will snag up on it in a heartbeat!!! I think most people are full of crap, quite honestly. They talk a good talk, but most of it is BS. People who have been married for years, might find some commonality with another person of the opposite sex. May not be flirting, just plain talking, regular conversations but it can still lead to other things. Something lacking in the marriage. It could be all kinds of things. You just never know, but I still wouldn't be w/someone who needs to flirt.
LadyWolf
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MMDad
Lem Putt
Wow. You sure are uptight and insecure. Why does a simple flirt hurt you so bad? Do you think it will lead to something else? That a man is so tenuously hanging to monogamy that a simple lick of the lips could cause him to abandon a commitment and get busy?
If you freak out over a simple flirt, my wife and I would give you an aneurysm!
kwillia
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That's what I was thinking too..but I've lost the moral high ground in this particular argument since my flirty ex wife took it the other direction to the extreme. That I 'let the flirting go' as long as I did?..because I believed there is a middle ground where flirtation and security are well balanced. I thought I was being 'enlightened..secure..non-possesive" I still believe that...I'm just a lot more realistic about where it can and does 'go wrong'.
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Sunkist
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There is a guy that I work with that I "flirt" with and he knows i'm happily married and that it will never mean anything other then just joking around and getting a good laugh. With that being said, 1)My husband has met said co-worker and 2) my husband has seen how I "flirt" with said co-worker and is ok with it. If my husband were not ok with it, the flirting would stop immediately.
MMDad
Lem Putt
Justme2
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Sure you are and you are the alpha woman to all humans too I guess.
Why do you think that woman was saying that She didn't get under your skin did she????
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LadyWolf
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Are we still doing this? Good grief, I thought this horse had been buried. You all CLEARLY HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO DO and if you notice...the person who wrote the original question has yet to respond which is funny in itself.
ARE YOU BLIND? CAN YOU READ? DID YOU READ MY REPLY? PROBABLY NOT!! I'm not responding again. If you really want to know if she got UNDER MY SKIN...go back and find my response. IDIOT!
LadyWolf
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I think you all are so funny!!! You read only bits and pieces of things and have no idea of anything else I have said or replied to. You pass judgement and assume I'm insecure. Actually, I'm quite secure. People make people insecure. That is A FACT!! I'll remember that the next time I FLIRT WITH SOMEONE ELSES HUSBAND or better yet, someone elses husband FLIRTS W/ME!!!
