Fun times!

[libertytyranny]

I have found that if men are interested, they will ask. Sometimes men are just flirts and like to string a lady or two along to boost their egos..some like to just flirt until they can get ya in bed. Ones that truely like you and want to get to know you will ask.


that's what I tell my friends, anyway. In real life I ignore my own good, sound, logical advice and find myself in the exact same situation as you. I prefer to think it is because I am extremely intimidating but in reality I am pretty sure it is because I am sort of a strong woman who doesn't "do" needy and clingy and men don't always understand that I like them..they tend to take my sarcasm as me not taking them seriously.


they are weird.

 

[vraiblonde]

I have found that if men are interested, they will ask. Sometimes men are just flirts and like to string a lady or two along to boost their egos..some like to just flirt until they can get ya in bed. Ones that truely like you and want to get to know you will ask.

And to a man, our forum guys have all said the woman should do the asking.

Except Larry. I'm still not sure what he said.

 

[withrespect]

I have found that if men are interested, they will ask. Sometimes men are just flirts and like to string a lady or two along to boost their egos..some like to just flirt until they can get ya in bed. Ones that truely like you and want to get to know you will ask.


that's what I tell my friends, anyway. In real life I ignore my own good, sound, logical advice and find myself in the exact same situation as you. I prefer to think it is because I am extremely intimidating but in reality I am pretty sure it is because I am sort of a strong woman who doesn't "do" needy and clingy and men don't always understand that I like them..they tend to take my sarcasm as me not taking them seriously.


they are weird.

This is what my parents used to tell me when I had trouble finding a date for a dance or something. "you intimidate them, dear."

 

[DoWhat]

What do lesbians do?

 

[libertytyranny]

And to a man, our forum guys have all said the woman should do the asking.

Except Larry. I'm still not sure what he said.

I'm still trying to figure out if forum guys are truely representative of their gender

 

[Misfit]

What do lesbians do?

 

[slotpuppy]

First time I met my wife, I was sitting at a bar and she asked me to dance. At the end of the night, she asked me to go to kings dominion with her and her friends the next day. 20+ years later and we are still together. So I say, ladies, ask away.

 

[Misfit]

It was fate for me and my wife…. I was a Pirate and she was a damsel.

 

[Bann]

I have found that if men are interested, they will ask. Sometimes men are just flirts and like to string a lady or two along to boost their egos..some like to just flirt until they can get ya in bed. Ones that truely like you and want to get to know you will ask.


that's what I tell my friends, anyway. In real life I ignore my own good, sound, logical advice and find myself in the exact same situation as you. I prefer to think it is because I am extremely intimidating but in reality I am pretty sure it is because I am sort of a strong woman who doesn't "do" needy and clingy and men don't always understand that I like them..they tend to take my sarcasm as me not taking them seriously.


they are weird.

I agree! AND I also agree with Kwillia & BadGirl.

To ME it's not about Women's rights and all that. I have no problems with asking a guy out. None at all. If I wanted a guy to date or FWB, etc. there is & never has been a shortage of men for that. But that's tedious and not what I wanted. Knowing what you want & /or don't want and content to wait for it is half the battle. At least for me, anyway.

 

[vraiblonde]

This is what my parents used to tell me when I had trouble finding a date for a dance or something. "you intimidate them, dear."

My mom just used to tie a pork chop around my neck.

 

[TNRabbit]

ASK AWAY! It's not the Dark Ages....

And what's the hurt in a harmless dinner/drinks date? It gives you time to do a better assessment of the guy.

Men are from Mars & Women are from Venus; we don't always get your "interested" signal~

I find this question extremely interesting since I know you & how UN-shy you are...

 

[vraiblonde]

I'm still trying to figure out if forum guys are truely representative of their gender

I am back on the dating scene these days and...they are.

Seriously, I asked a guy out a few months ago - went to a picnic party with some friends and had a great time. Afterward he'd text me - hey, how's it going - hit me up on FB, sent me a little pot of welcome home flowers, saw him in group settings frequently and he was flirty, seemed interested ...and do you think he ever got around to actually asking me on (another) date? Uh, no.

So even AFTER I broke the dating ice he STILL wanted me to do all the work, the lazy bastage.

 

[kwillia]

My mom just used to tie a pork chop around my neck.

OMG! I tell my daughter that exact same line often... I've got to show her your post!

 

[vraiblonde]

ASK AWAY! It's not the Dark Ages....

And what's the hurt in a harmless dinner/drinks date? It gives you time to do a better assessment of the guy.

Men are from Mars & Women are from Venus; we don't always get your "interested" signal~

I find this question extremely interesting since I know you & how UN-shy you are...

AND you know the guy involved. If he doesn't ask, he's either not interested or he's a lazy bastage.

Biology 101: the egg does not chase down the sperm.

Who made the first move when you started seeing K?

 

[itsbob]

I am back on the dating scene these days and...they are.

Seriously, I asked a guy out a few months ago - went to a picnic party with some friends and had a great time. Afterward he'd text me - hey, how's it going - hit me up on FB, sent me a little pot of welcome home flowers, saw him in group settings frequently and he was flirty, seemed interested ...and do you think he ever got around to actually asking me on (another) date? Uh, no.

So even AFTER I broke the dating ice he STILL wanted me to do all the work, the lazy bastage.

Hey baby, how you feel about some wings and beer??



BadGirl told me to ask...

 

[kwillia]

Hey baby, how you feel about some wings and beer??



BadGirl told me to ask...

Don't fall for it, Vrai! They will lure you into their basement under the guise of wings and beer but you'll find yourself hanging walls!

 

[withrespect]

My mom just used to tie a pork chop around my neck.

 

[withrespect]

Don't fall for it, Vrai! They will lure you into their basement under the guise of wings and beer but you'll find yourself hanging walls!

I offered up my caulking expertise. It was ignored.

 

[itsbob]

I offered up my caulking expertise. It was ignored.

I read about your caulking experience...

But how are you with drywall mud??

 

[itsbob]

Don't fall for it, Vrai! They will lure you into their basement under the guise of wings and beer but you'll find yourself hanging walls!

It's better than luring her into the basment and putting her INTO a wall..