I'm Methodist, as baptized, attended church regularly as a youth and as a young adult, but as I got older I drifted away from regular attendance. I still attend services on occasion but now it is of differing Christian faiths and do so only sporadically when I feel the need.Kerad said:Ok, Ken....I'll bite. I have no idea what religion you follpw...or where your kids (if you have any) go to school. So..let me assume you have have kids..let me assume they go to school...and let me assume that you take them to "church".
Alot of assumptions...I know.
That said...how do your children learn of your faith? Do you tell them about it personally? Do you take them to church/Sunday school/ CCD/ Temple/ any religious study courses? If so..how does that get paid for? Do you donate money to the church/school that provides that instruction?
If so...do you also donate money to the other religious schools (of differing faiths than your own)?
I am a father of three, plus one step-child, all attended public schools and all are now adults, plus five grandkids. The children were exposed to church and religion and two have regularly attended since early childhood and two are only occasional attendees. I never forced any of them to go with me, but was pleased when they did which was regular until they were in their teens. The two regular attendees go to churches of differing faith and of their own choosing, Baptist and non-denominational.
We discuss matters of faith and religion at times and I grab “the book” on occasion to seek guidance or comfort when my inner being tells me to or I am faced with one of life’s many challenges, but nothing regular, structured, of fanatical. I believe in a higher power, a divine influence and am in continual awe of the many wonders of our world. I am equally inspired and distraught by the capabilities of man and the acts that they do that can be wondrously good or the unimaginable heinous atrocities that we hear of and witness regularly.
Do I give money still? Yes and regularly volunteer for church and philanthropic activities as I believe it is our duty to help others in need. The church does a lot of good and the money I give helps them do more. The fact that I don’t attend that church anymore isn’t important, I still feel connected to it. I also donate to the local fire department and rescue squad annually, Big Brothers and Sisters, United Way, and several other charities.
I think you might have confused my tolerance and acceptance of others wanting to understand or learn more with a person that expects others to believe and believe as they do. I’m not like that and don’t care what anyone’s religious beliefs are as that is none of my business. I also see the limits of the First Amendment as only applicable to the actions of Congress and that the states and people are not restricted by that right or in any like manner unless specifically stated in the individual states constitution.
I think that exposing children to religious documentation is relevant to understanding our world and the people that inhabit it. Discussion of those documents and exposure to religion shouldn’t be feared, but encouraged. As long as care is exercised to ensure that a fanatic isn’t trying to influence or push any specific religion through elective classes of this type. I truly believe that it could benefit their understanding and foster tolerance as to the differences of our world’s cultures, but I would never like to see them made mandatory.
Does this answer your questions? I know what it has done to your assumptions and reinforces why we probably shouldn't make them.
How about you, what's your story?