Girlfriend & Her "Male" Friends

get4real

get4real

U-WISHHH
I think this situation is pretty cut and dry. You know what you should do. You should never make someone your priority when you are only an option to them. She's a messed up biatch and she's using you. Find someone who will respect you and love to be with you.
 
T

The Scrambler

Member
Thanks Real. I don't think I have appowed myself to get overly wrapped up emotionally with my situation. I hope I can meet the kind of women you have suggested someday.
 
get4real

get4real

U-WISHHH
LadyWolf said:
No offense, but I wasn't talking to you. I was actually speaking to Wesley as he was asking for peoples opinion.
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Sorry, I've seen people fishing for dates on here and I didn't see it that way. I know that his situation probably seems pretty cut and dry for most of us. But when you are involved in the situation you miss alot of things and I think he needed some outside advise.
 
LadyWolf

LadyWolf

New Member
get4real said:
Sorry, I've seen people fishing for dates on here and I didn't see it that way. I know that his situation probably seems pretty cut and dry for most of us. But when you are involved in the situation you miss alot of things and I think he needed some outside advise.
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I was just somewhat letting him know that perhaps he should be somewhat skeptical of this woman and if he is sensing something not right about the relationship, it's probably a clear indication that he should get out and run!!!
 
get4real

get4real

U-WISHHH
LadyWolf said:
I was just somewhat letting him know that perhaps he should be somewhat skeptical of this woman and if he is sensing something not right about the relationship, it's probably a clear indication that he should get out and run!!!
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Gotcha, I agree totally. I think I misread your first quote.
 
ice-man

ice-man

New Member
Wesley said:
So, Forumites,Your advice is appreciated.

Been seeing this women for about eleven months. She says she is way too busy to see me any more than maybe once a week and sometimes once or twice every other week. We have discussed her maybe not having any time for a relationship but she contends thats not the case. She says she has alot of male friends and she seems to have time in her busy schedule to do things with them such as lunch, help her with repairs around her home, hepl her pick up a christmas tree, ect. She said she wasn't about to give up her male friends because I feel uncomfortable with her having time for them but not time for me.

Question:

Am I being played for a sucker? She has needed financial help in the past with which I have gladly helped as a loan which I never did get payed back.

Is this women worth my time? I am a very successful guy with decent looks and I aggree sometimes a bit gullable.

Any thoughts from anyone?
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She is playing for a sucker. You deserve better than someone who is playing the field like that. If your looking for something serious and long term you have to think this way -- All those friends of the opposite sex can NEVER help a serious relationship or marriage.
 
unixpirate

unixpirate

Pitty Party
ice-man said:
She is playing for a sucker. You deserve better than someone who is playing the field like that. If your looking for something serious and long term you have to think this way -- All those friends of the opposite sex can NEVER help a serious relationship or marriage.
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After 3 months and you haven't heard from the character, I'm sure they are no longer. :bigwhoop:
 
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