Girlfriend & Her "Male" Friends

I really don't understand women. Most guys probably don't but we are looking for one thing for sure. Thats to just be valued and appreciated not because of what we do but for who we are.
 

PrepH4U

New Member
Vrail, thats why I submitted my question. I knew there was a women out there somewhere that could shed some light on my current situation. Thank you.

It sounds like she has already ended it and you did not "hear" or understand what she said. Maybe you were looking in the mirror too long when she was around. :shrug: Sounds like she is ended it nicely and considers you just a casual friend now. :shrug:
 

Beelzebaby666

Has confinement issues..
Here's what we do..

Get the hottest chick on the forum to go out with Wesley and show up someplace where he knows she will hang out.


We will see how she reacts, then Wesley will slam her publicly and we need to have someone video tape it for those who don't leave their computers.:lol:
 
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toppick08

Guest
I really don't understand women. Most guys probably don't but we are looking for one thing for sure. Thats to just be valued and appreciated not because of what we do but for who we are.

Just be yourself, and it will come....when you least expect it.

Hang in there.
 

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
I really don't understand women. Most guys probably don't but we are looking for one thing for sure. Thats to just be valued and appreciated not because of what we do but for who we are.

Good luck with that. Women want the same thing. But the minute we start feeling like some guy is interested in us for our brains, some other guy invents a robo-woman who cooks and cleans and agrees with him no matter what he says, and is trying to program her so she'll fake an orgasm.

:shrug:
 
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toppick08

Guest
I am now challenged with the question of am I codependent. I studied codependency in college and I am challenged with that question for myself. Ironic.

pussy...:whistle:

man , I know it's rough, but after 11 months, let it go...............it ain't worth it.
 
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CalvertNewbie

Guest
I never did learn how to do or say something to make someone else jealous

You don't need to go that route. It sounds like you're sick of her games so there's no reason to bother trying to play a game with her (although it can be amusing at times!). My advice is to have a chat with her, face to face. That way, you can pay close attention to her facial expressions to see if she's being honest with you or if she full of crap. Ask her flat out what she wants out of this "relationship". After 11 months, you deserve an answer.

It sounds like you need to know where you stand and where, if anywhere, you fit into her life. It seems that she's not making you much of a priority in her life and a relationship needs to be a 2 way street. While you're having your talk with her, ask her when she plans to repay you the money she owes you. Tell her you're not a bank and need your money back. It sounds like she's using you and if that's the case, she's a biatch.
 

Dupontster

Would THIS face lie?
I'm not really sure what co-dependent means, but you seem to have a bit of low self-esteem.

If you enjoy her company, that's fine. But you should still be playing the field because (here comes a cliche) you'll never find Ms. Right if your mooning after Ms. Wrong.

:shrug:

Well, I say that because you've been doing this with her for eleven months, which is a long time to be fooling around with a girl who's being, um, elusive.

So cool! Go date!

And I'll bet you $10 that the second you find another woman you're interested in, Ms. Wrong will be beating down your door wanting to know "what happened".

$10.

He didn't say she was Asian did he?
 
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