Give childhood back to children

MarieB

New Member
Give childhood back to children: if we want our offspring to have happy, productive and moral lives, we must allow more time for play, not less
Because students spend nearly all of their time studying, they have little opportunity to be creative or discover their own passions

I’m a research bio-psychologist with a PhD, so I’ve done lots of school. I’m a pretty good problem-solver, in my work and in the rest of my life, but that has little to do with the schooling I’ve had. I studied algebra, trig, calculus and various other maths in school, but I can’t recall ever facing a problem – even in my scientific research – that required those skills. What maths I’ve used was highly specialised and, as with most scientists, I learnt it on the job.
The real problems I’ve faced in life include physical ones (such as how to operate a newfangled machine at work or unblock the toilet at home), social ones (how to get that perfect woman to be interested in me), moral ones (whether to give a passing grade to a student, for effort, though he failed all the tests), and emotional ones (coping with grief when my first wife died or keeping my head when I fell through the ice while pond skating). Most problems in life cannot be solved with formulae or memorised answers of the type learnt in school. They require the judgement, wisdom and creative ability that come from life experiences. For children, those experiences are embedded in play.

Give childhood back to children: if we want our offspring to have happy, productive and moral lives, we must allow more time for play, not less - Comment - Voices - The Independent


Great article
 

PJumper

New Member
explosives and cheap cigarettes worked for me

Let me see. By age 9, I was fishing using dynamites, sodium cyanide and with motorcycle battery. By 10 or 11 I go to the farm with a 22 caliber rifle hanging from my shoulder. Around 12 to 15 were engaged in territorial wars with other kids, using slingshots first then escalating to BB guns and home-made explosives.

Survived all that and went to college at age 16 to be drunk the first day of school, courtesy of older brother. Still managed to land a job at the Shipyard at 19 and joined the Navy at 22. Retired the service after 25 years and now working as a defense contractor.

Did I mention that we used to play with mercury and lead, slept in huts sprayed with DDT?
 

Vince

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explosives and cheap cigarettes worked for me
Explosives? Ahh, that brings back memories. My older brother got a Chemistry set for Christmas one year and we made gunpowder. It was great blowing stuff up. :killingme You couldn't get a Chemistry set with those chemicals in nowadays.
 

Makavide

Not too talkative
I studied algebra, trig, calculus and various other maths in school, but I can’t recall ever facing a problem – even in my scientific research – that required those skills. What maths I’ve used was highly specialised and, as with most scientists, I learnt it on the job.

however, with out the basics of those math skills learned in school, those "highly specialized maths" would have been impossible to develop....
 

acommondisaster

Active Member
Good read; I'm glad to have confirmation that I'm right, badgering my kids to get their kids out and away from computer/IPAD/TV (they're 4 and 2) and have some unstructured playtime where they use their imaginations. I'm going to share this with them.
 

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
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however, with out the basics of those math skills learned in school, those "highly specialized maths" would have been impossible to develop....

As an "adult learner" :jet: I will vouch for that. Most people use algebra and trig all the time and don't even realize it.

But I agree with the premise of the article. I think we do focus too much energy on college prep and not enough on basic life skills. Only hands-on experience will teach the common sense and critical thinking that are necessities for successful adulthood.
 

MarieB

New Member
Good read; I'm glad to have confirmation that I'm right, badgering my kids to get their kids out and away from computer/IPAD/TV (they're 4 and 2) and have some unstructured playtime where they use their imaginations. I'm going to share this with them.

It can be a battle for some kids

I'm lucky, for the most part, in that regard. My youngest spends hours a day digging in his "construction site". When it's cold, I give him beans and baking soda to use inside. The oldest is tough at times, but we manage well enough. It is more difficult when they spend time with friends who are connected to their devices too much.
 
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