Bay_Kat
Tropical
I saw that, but you never know. Stranger things have happened. She could also find some lunatic.
Guys, is she interested in you or just hungry?
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I saw that, but you never know. Stranger things have happened. She could also find some lunatic.
kwillia
n/a
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Is that a sex position? I'm so out of it.
No. It's for if she, or you, are really ugly.
Here's thing. In this day and age, guys looking to just get laid are not going to click the link that says 'let's have dinner and get to know one another.' There are far too many links, and society is far more casual about sex to bother with the 'normal' dating process if all you want is to get laid, so, that part is crap.
Sex is certainly part of the equation but, guys don't take girls to dinner solely for sex. That's like going to the grocery store and buying a crust, veggies, sausage and cheese and taking it home to make a pizza next weekend or maybe the 'date' after that when Domino's is closer, same price, and all you want is pizza, right now.
I got no problem with her dating solely for food but, it's not the same as the guy taking her to dinner solely for sex because that is not what he is planning on if he chooses the 'get to know one another first' route of dinner.
Plus, whomever said she might find someone she really likes is right; obviously, she doesn't have a steady so, whatever she's been doing either isn't working or isn't supposed to but, 'speed' eating will get her out of her normal paradigm and, who knows, maybe come across a gem on the menu. So to speak.
Unless she is a freak magnet. Then, who knows?
frequentflier
happy to be living
She wasn't looking for *dates* or a relationship of any kind. Just the tone of her writing made me sick. I don't know if she was leading the guys on like lying and saying she was looking for a relationship or making like she was seriously interested in dating. She was looking to use guys for a free meal. It just rubs me the wrong way. I guess I am just not pretentious and do not understand people that are.
Happy to be happily married, too!
I'm surprised to learn that online dating is good for free food. I thought on a first Match date they'd go dutch, and I'd think the guy would insist on that. It seems unfeasible that a man would be buying dinner or lunch for throngs of strange women.
But honestly? Princess B*tch will just speak her mind (because that is so unusual for me):
If a guy is on an online dating service, that means he can't find women in real life that will give him the time of day and he probably should have to pay for female companionship.
But honestly? Princess B*tch will just speak her mind (because that is so unusual for me):
If a guy is on an online dating service, that means he can't find women in real life that will give him the time of day and he probably should have to pay for female companionship.
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
Guys love a challenge. They want to bang a hot chick. I assume that there are not that many women posting ads for a one-night stand.
kwillia
n/a
I guess I can't comprehend that thought process as my brain just doesn't work that way... but then again I was "raised" by some really smart and decent women friends to treat guys with respect and even buy them drinks on occasion... I, too, am so glad I'm out of the dating scene...
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
Not only that, but there are niceties to be observed. You can't just hit up some strange woman and say, "Hey, wanna ####?" because she won't respond to that and may report you to the site administrators. So guys have to act like they want to date, grease the skids with a little chow, maneuver her into position, and THEN ask her if she wants to ####.
Misfit
Lawful neutral
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
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I'll meet you at Wendy's. Let me get behind you in the drive thru line and you can just pay for my #1 and we don't even have to meet in person!
frequentflier
happy to be living
See, I don't agree with that statement. Maybe you know better than I, though, since you are single and I am not.
15 years ago, I was single. I owned a successful business, had a beautiful 3 bed/ 2 bath house w/ a pool, very independent, had zero debt, was a fit and trim size 8/10, have all my own teeth, etc. I knew a lot of people but could not meet a decent single guy (without a bunch of f$$k trophies) to hang out with. If I had a computer and online dating were available- I would have least given it a shot as a way to meet someone.
I find it hard to believe every guy on dating sites are losers. Just like I don't believe all women on them are losers -in my case- I was far from being a loser and had a lot to offer. I just did not have a good way to meet people because I didn't hang out in bars, worked a bazillion hours and my business was in the service industry but was not dealing with the public.
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MMDad
Lem Putt
And I thought your Craigslist ad was sincere. I never would have responded to you if I knew it was just to buy you dinner.
MMDad
Lem Putt
He has a better plan. A big kitchen with lots of buttons for Vrai to use. And a TV. And lotion. It puts the lotion on it's skin.
I tend to agree with this. I never did Match.com or any other online dating service. I'd rather pluck out my eyelashes than to do that.
Then again, I never did the serial dating or playing the field thing either. Just didn't want to kiss a lot of frogs, so to speak. :shrug: I never did many "fix ups" - I either met friends for dinner or I met people in groups or gatherings of friends.
disclaimer: BUT! I respect other people's rights to do so and what works for them is none of my busyness!
