AC/DC
Lord, I apologize.
Vince said:But it's all paid for now and I can concentrate my funding elsewhere.
Like making payments on the new ventured property……..
Vince said:But it's all paid for now and I can concentrate my funding elsewhere.
vraiblonde said:It's frustrating because she had a "pity me, it's not my fault" mentality before and NYU has just reinforced it, from her teachers down to her classmates, because that's how they all think. So our problem with her is worse than when we started.
It wasn't intended as a smack... my first born has similar tendencies so I feel your pain. Thankfully, I had his 3rd grade teacher shake me into realizing it was my job as his mother to put all consequences of his actions (or lack there of) directly back on him and ask him how he was going to rectify each situation he got himself into by not thinking things through. It's a never ending battle, but it has helped him tremendously. He is 12 now and though he still on occasion causes a ripple or two, he actually comes up with ways to resolve his issues pretty much on his own. He has even scheduled his own conferences with a teacher or two to discuss how he can make amends for a test he didn't think he needed to study for or for an assignment he failed to hand in. I'm glad you didn't take issue with my post.... I seriously was just trying to help...vraiblonde said:Let me say, I don't resent Chasey and Kwillia smacking me in the head with the truth:
Ouch. But there you have it.
Not at all - I appreciate your honesty and reality check. It pays to have your life documented for the whole world to see. That way when you're trying to kid yourself, there are any number of people who can go, "Excuse me...wasn't this you?"kwillia said:I'm glad you didn't take issue with my post.... I seriously was just trying to help...
Everyone is different, it works for some and not others, I am looking to come out of this semester with above a 3.0, 1 final to go... I am a 10-15 minute drive from baltimore and i have everything i need within walking distance of my dorm (mall, movie theater, bars, prison, etc...) just a matter of self control and moderation I guess?vraiblonde said:It was a HUGE mistake for us to take our kid straight from high school to a big city college. We should have had her do a year at a smaller college closer to home, then see how it went from there before we just tossed her into the pit.
Our oldest daughter is back home after failing another class. Her advisor was trying to get us to let her stay but no. I'd rather she be in an environment where she can succeed, even if it's community college or UMD or wherever.
The demands of a highly competitive school, plus living on her own for the first time, plus the distraction of NYC was a recipe for disaster. I blame myself for letting my pride get in the way of my good sense.
So if this helps anyone from making the same mistake I did, I will consider that well worth the cost of her first year tuition.
Don't be too certain. My ex boss was a nun and she was a die-hard liberal.kom526 said:the nuns would take care of the liberal-itis.