Would be very 'lady of the manor' to have your horse spotless, tacked and ready when you drive up to ride.
growing up in an A barn is "nice" if you don't know better. I would tell you that I did "learn" to clean stalls and tack up the one week of summer camp that I did every year but it does not send you out into the horseworld prepared.
I ended up going off to college, got married, moved overseas and had two kids--and took a 12 year break from riding. When I came back into riding (on a military budget) I did not have the same level of services offered to me. I also thought since I won great year end awards, that I could ride a horse. I got on a green horse after that 12 year break and yikes--it was a real eye opener.
IMHO, those barns like their students not to know how to do things because it leaves the student dependent on them and they can charge additional fees. I learned how to trailer a horse after I was 30 years old. When I was a kid-I'd show up to the showgrounds, sometimes watch my horse come off the trailer, but mostly in time to watch my trainer go around in a few classes (as my warm up for my horse) then I'd jump a few jumps and then go in the classes and "maybe" stay around till my horse got loaded on the trailer and went home.
While it is winter-sure, I'd love someone to clean my barn, keep my horse spotless and tack up for me--but that is just b/c I don't want to go out in the cold lol. I am a much better rider and horseman now that I have to do these things myself. I was on such a learning curve when my daughter joined PC b/c I didn't know very much. Thank goodness, I had a friend "send" me ponies to look at b/c I never bought a horse before. Trainer would bring in horses for me to try and would buy them for us. I have bought several horses since those first pony shopping days--and I am a good crash course student!
Having been on both sides of the fence--it really is not greener over there. I much prefer knowing my horses and caring for them myself (even though they are quite dirty at times) lol
I really would not trade my little house or backyard ponies.