My youngest son lives with me, and the oldest and youngest stepson call when they need something. The middle stepson calls about twice a week.
I used to talk to my mother every day, she fought cancer for ten years so I called daily to check on her. My father always answered the phone and always said hello, here is your mother. Since she was always sick he got used to her getting all the attention. I call my dad on a regular basis now, soon after my mother passed I called him once and his voice started cracking. I asked him what was wrong, and he said he just realized now that when I call his house I was calling to talk to him......