How to explain to my kids?
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JPC sr
James P. Cusick Sr.
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The point is that a legal marriage gives options besides just divorce.
Like a spouse can bring law suit against the person adulterating the marriage and can legally do great harm to the one cheating with the spouse.
It is a sweet revenge and a satisfying tactic and if one jumps to a divorce then the options deteriorate.
A couple can separate and stay married at the same time and such legal strings on the other spouse are incredibly difficult against the other spouse that wants to get a divorce.
If the other spouse files for divorce then the other can ask the Court to deny it and demand reconciliation and that forces the adulterer out of hiding.
Fighting and abuse are real reasons for separating but by refusing to divorce then the fighting and the abuse is then forced into livable terms or else the pressure will brake the violent one.
Marriage is not meant to be easy and giving an easy divorce just cheats each of the couple out of their due.
I am not saying to accept wrong doings, I am saying to stay and fight for right.
LusbyMom said:
The point is that a legal marriage gives options besides just divorce.Like a spouse can bring law suit against the person adulterating the marriage and can legally do great harm to the one cheating with the spouse.
It is a sweet revenge and a satisfying tactic and if one jumps to a divorce then the options deteriorate.
A couple can separate and stay married at the same time and such legal strings on the other spouse are incredibly difficult against the other spouse that wants to get a divorce.
If the other spouse files for divorce then the other can ask the Court to deny it and demand reconciliation and that forces the adulterer out of hiding.
Fighting and abuse are real reasons for separating but by refusing to divorce then the fighting and the abuse is then forced into livable terms or else the pressure will brake the violent one.
Marriage is not meant to be easy and giving an easy divorce just cheats each of the couple out of their due.
I am not saying to accept wrong doings, I am saying to stay and fight for right.
This_person
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usagent said:
The Chesapeake Bay is far too large for an ex-spouse.
This_person
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Other options you have are to flee for your life, deserting your spouse and child, letting them figure out for themselves what to do, right, Jimmy!? Then, when they finally find you, you can get yourself thrown in jail to keep from having to parent your child!JPC sr said:
BuffaloBill
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RoseRed said:
Hey how long ago were you paying $10 for a dime...they were $20 when when I was bu....oops!
Pete
Repete
This link is for you. click itJPC sr said:
in the movie "Sweet Home Alabama", link HERE.
The rush to divorce Court is cheating the couple out of their rightful due.
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This_person
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RoseRed said:
I'm trying, believe it or not!
Ehesef
Yo Gabba Gabba
For all of you saying "Stay married no matter what," did you come from a home where your parents didn't love each other, or beat each other, or drank too much or cheated on each other? If you did, I cannot for the life of me understand how you would say "Stay together." My life was so much better after my parents divorce. I still have healthy relationships with both, as well as with my stepmom. I don't have "committment issues" or anything like that....As long as both parents agree to keep the divorce and resulting relationship between them as amicable as possible and as long as the kids are not brought in to any disagreements, etc., eveything should be fine.
Ehesef
Yo Gabba Gabba
I would answer your questions if you weren't an idiot. But you are and I can thank Zutard for a lesson in feeding the trolls.JPC sr said:
That you see nothing wrong with divorce?
That divorce is a normal and even a healthy part of living?
Those are questions and not accusations.
If I were a kid, I wouldn't care if my parents didn't love each other - that's their problem and they should have thought of that before they got married and gave birth.Ehesef said:
The rest is abuse and definite grounds for getting yourself and your kids out of there. But most divorces happen because Mommy or Daddy wants a new lover.