How to explain to my kids?

[Ehesef]

But most divorces happen because Mommy or Daddy wants a new lover.

If that's the reason for the divorce, then it's not cool with me. You don't get a divorce because you can't keep it in your pants and you want a new piece of azz. You should have thought of that before getting married. The others here were coming across as "divorce is never an option, never, never, never. Who cares if she came after you with a chainsaw and a vengence, it doesn't matter, you still need to work it out." Sometimes working it out just isn't an option. That's all I'm saying. I don't agree with "irreconcilable differences," you married for better or for worse. But if I wake up one morning married to a raging alcoholic wife beater, I'm beating feet out of there.

 

[vraiblonde]

The others here were coming across as "divorce is never an option, never, never, never. Who cares if she came after you with a chainsaw and a vengence, it doesn't matter, you still need to work it out."

Probably only JPC thinks that - normal people don't.

And we notice JPC is divorced, now don't we?

 

[JPC sr]

Batman

Probably only JPC thinks that - normal people don't.

And we notice JPC is divorced, now don't we?

My point was against making divorce as the first option,

and against having divorce as the only option.

 

[JPC sr]

Batman

I would answer your questions if you weren't an idiot. But you are and I can thank Zutard for a lesson in feeding the trolls.

I do not ask questions on here often,

and now I send my regrets for asking this poster,

as I had thought the poster might be bigger than that.

 

[usagent]

If I were a kid, I wouldn't care if my parents didn't love each other - that's their problem and they should have thought of that before they got married and gave birth.

The rest is abuse and definite grounds for getting yourself and your kids out of there. But most divorces happen because Mommy or Daddy wants a new lover.

What's love got to do, got to do with it?