As I’ve mentioned before, my “ex” and I have been living apart for 2+ years now and I essentially spent most of those 2 years fighting for our marriage back. Well, a few months ago I decided to stop fighting for it, started re-building my life and decided that I was actually happier this way. I even started talking to a few different guys and enjoyed the “newness” of it. On our daughter’s birthday and 5 days surrounding it I was emotionally beaten up by him for not caring anymore and he told me he was done, to go ahead with the divorce, he couldn’t take it anymore – to which I replied okay, that I was tired of the arguing anyway and that I couldn’t trust him anymore. After those 5 or so days, he has started asking, almost begging, me to take him back. Told me he was only angry acting because he wanted to try and “scare me into doing the right thing”. He’s been sweet as pie ever since – but the problem is that I don’t want him back – and I never know when the devil is going to come back out! I have told him that we have too many issues to try and make things work – that if he went to a marriage counselor with me I’d consider it, but he’s not willing to do that.
So, since you can’t send me nasty karma anymore about what an idiot I am – help me grow a spine here! What’s the best way to tell him to move on, when he just doesn’t get it??
So, since you can’t send me nasty karma anymore about what an idiot I am – help me grow a spine here! What’s the best way to tell him to move on, when he just doesn’t get it??