Divorced (aren't you divorced?) unwed mother (in this day and age that really isn't all that uncommon, so while you think you're insulting me you're also speaking to everyone else that reads this that's had a babe out of wedlock). Is it that you tried really hard to do the right thing and can't seem to find a decent man, yet you see someone like me who's made mistakes in life and has one. Here's a little bit of advice, those "mistakes" make me a real person and not so much a "holier than thou" freaking biatch. You wonder why your life isn't going in the direction you want it to, take a look at your attitude. A decent guy wants a decent woman. Nothing you can say to me will shame me because at the end of the day I go home to a good man who's in love with me and two gorgeous kids, something that means something and what do you have? You're 30something, alone and you didn't get knocked up out of wedlock!