I was wondering if anyone would be clever enough think of that!
Indecent Proposal
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I was wondering if anyone would be clever enough think of that!
SxyPrincess
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Originally posted by vraiblonde
I don't get it?
Instead of spending the mil for your own pleasure, spend it to get back at someone! Man after my own heart...
SxyPrincess
New Member
I've never been that jealous over anyone to want revenge. Better to love em and leave em.
You know what? Now that I think about it, if I were in the midst of a divorce and wanted a big settlement, I'd pay someone to sleep with my husband - if they got pictures...
Sierra39
Hairball Magnet
See Vrai? Now we've got you thinking...
But in regards to the initial question, just call me "the ho" – I'd go for the money! Or even let my hubbie go for it! AND buy Christy's t-shirt, to boot!
In my twenties I woulda never done it because sex meant love...but now I'm an older, cynical, ruthless, capitalist whose stock portfolio value took a beating in this damn recession...
But in regards to the initial question, just call me "the ho" – I'd go for the money! Or even let my hubbie go for it! AND buy Christy's t-shirt, to boot!
In my twenties I woulda never done it because sex meant love...but now I'm an older, cynical, ruthless, capitalist whose stock portfolio value took a beating in this damn recession...
Sleeping with her and saying my name...but that's just me!
And you know, sometimes when I'm tired and not in the mood I might pay someone to have sex with my husband...hmmm...maybe I need to rethink this...
Yeah...it would be hard to get him to go for it though...he's even more uptight than I am, if you can imagine that 
R
RFM
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Originally posted by vraiblonde
Instead of spending the mil for your own pleasure, spend it to get back at someone! Man after my own heart...
OK, honestly though it would not be out of revenge. To make a long story short. I know that Richard is cheating on Brenda (my Ex) but I can not prove it other than knowing what I saw. I told her about it but of course she did not believe me. I still care about her well being and she is the mother of my two wonderful daughters. I do not want to see them go through anymore pain. I just feel that it would be better if she knew the truth now than later when it may be to late. Yes, I know I'm a dope and a romantic but that's just me.
John
Dang, you guys slammed out a ton this afternoon. As to the question, it was a million in the movie, so I'll use that.
Hell yeah I would let the wife do it. Million bucks, managed conservatively, yielding about $100K a year. Early retirement, tuck my measly 30% of my pay into the mix, roll over my 401K or use it to pay off this mortgage, sounds like easy street to me. We're mountain bound, gone fishing, visiting family and friends, just not here.
I don't buy into that crap about money doesn't matter, it does or none of us would be working. As far as some of you that feel it would breech the bonds of your marriage vows fine. I don't see it that way as it would only be a business transaction. Most of us have done it for a dinner and movie, a million bucks is a no-brainer. I imagine some of you have done it for less. For us it would be a mutual decision that wouldn't be that tough to get over. It's not like either of us were virgins when we got together.
What would be nice is if they would give the money to us in $1 bills and they wouldn't give her back till I was done counting.
Just kidding Sweetie, it could be tens (I’ll just count slower). An evening of solitude would be nice though.
Brrrr, dude - I'm getting frostbite in here...
What ever happened to true love? Am I just naive or are you all just jaded and cynical?
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yornoc
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Right now, I would not even think about it (and I hope I'll be able to continue thinking this way).
If that money was ment to be mine, I'd have to get it some other way.
True love is what Susan and I share, this, if in this hypothetical situation was agreed upon, would be nothing more then just business.
If the roles were reversed I'm sure she wouldn't mind me doing it either as we both love each other and trust each other enough to know it would never come between us. It would give her a break from my snoring, which she proclaims is world class (I don't know, I've never heard it).
ed and made up.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Seven pages and not once, unless I missed it, did anyone examine this from the other side; you know, the person forking over the mil?
Wouldn't this simply be a power trip on the money person’s part? Perhaps an attempt by the super rich to win a $1 bet with a buddy or to prove a point, such as "you can buy anyone"?
Somehow, you all feel that someone is gonna just plop down $1,000,000, ball your spouse and leave your life otherwise intact.
Where's your imagination? Hell, anybody even see the stupid movie?
If you have the cash you can shell out a few grand and have some pro boy or girl blow your mind for real for a whole weekend. That same person gonna pay 1,000 times that for an amateur?
Get real. Anybody who's so eager to sell would, IMHO, immediately be out of the running for our hypothetical millionaire. To easy.
Anybody who'd negotiate up or down would likewise be sent packing, credit card bills and loser lottery tickets in hand. Not enough challenge.
I suspect anyone who'd want to blow a mil would be looking for a real challenge. Some real life(s) to ruin. A life of intangible value, trust, someone who really has something they don't have.
I ain't gonna play judge. You fill in the blank as to what they want from you, really, that's worth a million dollars to them. I can just guarantee you that it isn't a roll in the hay.
Wouldn't this simply be a power trip on the money person’s part? Perhaps an attempt by the super rich to win a $1 bet with a buddy or to prove a point, such as "you can buy anyone"?
Somehow, you all feel that someone is gonna just plop down $1,000,000, ball your spouse and leave your life otherwise intact.
Where's your imagination? Hell, anybody even see the stupid movie?
If you have the cash you can shell out a few grand and have some pro boy or girl blow your mind for real for a whole weekend. That same person gonna pay 1,000 times that for an amateur?
Get real. Anybody who's so eager to sell would, IMHO, immediately be out of the running for our hypothetical millionaire. To easy.
Anybody who'd negotiate up or down would likewise be sent packing, credit card bills and loser lottery tickets in hand. Not enough challenge.
I suspect anyone who'd want to blow a mil would be looking for a real challenge. Some real life(s) to ruin. A life of intangible value, trust, someone who really has something they don't have.
I ain't gonna play judge. You fill in the blank as to what they want from you, really, that's worth a million dollars to them. I can just guarantee you that it isn't a roll in the hay.
See, Christy? I told you!
migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
I'm not married, so I can't really respond to the question, but I did want to say - this is why I don't date!!! The majority of the men on here thought it was a "business transaction" didn't weight the pros and cons - nothing - just business. At least the women had varying opinions and reasons behind them. But you guys who seem to think it is just business to send your wife out for the night with a strange man and that you are the one getting all the money need to rethink - because she is the one that earned it it is hers - you might get a small cut, if you are f'ng lucky. There's your business transaction.
First off this was all HYPOTHETICAL and not a real situation. Secondly, for my comments, I said it would be early retirement (which I intend to enjoy with my wife, though it would be great if I could retire and she would continue to work), the intent would be to share the moola together regardless of which of us would take the proposition. Finally, several men have posted that they wouldn't even consider it, so don't lump everyone into the same stereotypical pile as I seem to fit into.
Now if you check the other thread titled “Special Reserve List” it seems a lot of you already have persons in mind that would get you thinking about leaving your current love (most posters appear to be of the female persuasion on that string). I notice there wasn’t any condemnation for those people that have been predisposed enough to make a list. I know that was hypothetical too, but as this is all just active imaginations at work what’s the problem?
Now if you check the other thread titled “Special Reserve List” it seems a lot of you already have persons in mind that would get you thinking about leaving your current love (most posters appear to be of the female persuasion on that string). I notice there wasn’t any condemnation for those people that have been predisposed enough to make a list. I know that was hypothetical too, but as this is all just active imaginations at work what’s the problem?
migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
if you are referring to my post I said the "Majority" of the men not ALL of the men - so re-read. And my issue isn't whether or not someone takes this proposal - my issue is it being "strictly business" and it is my opinion then if that is the case, it isn't "our" money it belongs to the person who works for it. JMO