Is breaking your wedding vows...

[Sassygirl]

Life is so much better when you're not waiting for the next dagger to hit you in the back.

I would give you green for this statement as well but I'm on lockdown!

 

[Larry Gude]

So then...

...based on a majority of your posts here about cheating being to devestating, back to the original point:

Cohen says it's just sex, no big deal and it doesn't affect work.

Fair to say, then, also by the voting, he's full of #### and it DOES impact every area of your life, including your job?

Cohen was one of the big Clinton cheerleaders trying to say 'it is JUST sex' and it doesn't affect anything else.

Y'all paint a bleak picture of what life as Bill 'n Hill must be like.

 

[alex]

I think cheating is cheating and it is even worse in the workplace. Having once been employed where the Head Boss was messing with an 18 yr old secretary (He also had 2 kids and a wife who was 6 mos pregnant with their 3rd child at the time) it effects everything and eveyone in that office. This is true whether one party is married or if both are single.

The rest of the staff knows what is going on - even though the people involved think they don't. With a boss/subordinate relationship staff start to view office space, reponsibillities, promotions given to the subordinate with suspicsion --- moral and sometimes work performance plummets.

 

[dems4me]

I think cheating is cheating and it is even worse in the workplace. Having once been employed where the Head Boss was messing with an 18 yr old secretary (He also had 2 kids and a wife who was 6 mos pregnant with their 3rd child at the time) it effects everything and eveyone in that office. This is true whether one party is married or if both are single.

The rest of the staff knows what is going on - even though the people involved think they don't. With a boss/subordinate relationship staff start to view office space, reponsibillities, promotions given to the subordinate with suspicsion --- moral and sometimes work performance plummets.

I agree... several years ago i worked at a place where the secretary that wa stationed next to me was having an affair with the boss (they have since married eachother)... and it was kind of a weird atmosphere... she'd always wear lots of lipstick in general and then she'd walk out of the bosses office with a napkin hiding her lips and greet people as she walked down the hall holding said napkin so as not to show the lipstick smears enroute to the bathroom... we all just had to play along like we were oblivious to it all... it was very ackward because it was very unprofessional.

With a previous secretary -- he and another person (female) shared same secretary and she was always in his office... things got ugly and female boss and him were always fighting because she wanted secretary to do her work and man boss wanted secretary in his office literally all day long behind closed doors. Female boss then hired private eyes to spy and take pictures of this from the office across the street looking right into his office.

Then came the day in front of the executives at the executive meeting where she brought out all the explicit photo's etc... unfortunately said male boss was on exec. committee and she was asked to pack her bags...

 

[crabcake]

Then came the day in front of the executives at the executive meeting where she brought out all the explicit photo's etc... unfortunately said male boss was on exec. committee and she was asked to pack her bags...

dumbazz should've kept her mouth shut! She was probably just pizzed she wasn't invited to join in.

 

[K_Jo]

I agree... several years ago i worked at a place where the secretary that wa stationed next to me was having an affair with the boss

A friend of mine just caught her boss cheating. She's bummed out because she thought he was the wholesome family man. She says she doesn't respect him as much anymore.

I would definitely blackmail him.

 

[dems4me]

dumbazz should've kept her mouth shut! She was probably just pizzed she wasn't invited to join in.

tis true... but she had been madder than a wet hen for about a year and saw this as her chance to oust the guy.... unfortunately she didn't have enough clout... I can just picture all these stuffy suit and tie guys that I worked for all getting views of the pics of secretary and boss in various desk positions, etc.... I'm sure there were lots and lots of red faces and hems and haws in the meeting that day All the staff wished they could have been a fly on the wall..

 

[crabcake]

tis true... but she had been madder than a wet hen for about a year and saw this as her chance to oust the guy.... unfortunately she didn't have enough clout... I can just picture all these stuffy suit and tie guys that I worked for all getting views of the pics of secretary and boss in various desk positions, etc.... I'm sure there were lots and lots of red faces and hems and haws in the meeting that day All the staff wished they could have been a fly on the wall..

They probably him after she left the room too!

 

[somdcrab]

cheating is cheating













but gawd was it fun

 

[dems4me]

They probably him after she left the room too!

no... she was a small boney but yet big mouthed skank from the projects ... come to find out... she had her own agenda -- blackmail. But after the big ado about the photo's etc... she saw she couldn't get anything from it and moved onto another firm... Of course I didn't partake in much of the because it had nothing to do with me... but dang... alot of folks in the office just like to with folks whether you care to hear the details or not... especially the girl that would come up to me everday telling me how many used condoms she found in his trash can at the end of every day

I wasn't even 21 but he was always nice and take me, his lover and another coworker out for drinks every night at his expense.... seemed like a cool guy to me at the time

 

[virgovictoria]

Some of you may be happy to know that I can't register with the post (don't ask) therefore was not able to read the article, therefore stopped reading the thread/replies.

The happiness lies in the fact that I am unable to offer a long-winded postas a reply.

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[somdcrab]

Some of you may be happy to know that I can't register with the post (don't ask) therefore was not able to read the article, therefore stopped reading the thread/replies.

The happiness lies in the fact that I am unable to offer a long-winded postas a reply.

My Friday gift to you, my treasured fellow forumites!!! <a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZNskw006' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_3_16.gif' alt='Kisses' border=0></a>

wtf

 

[dems4me]

Some of you may be happy to know that I can't register with the post (don't ask) therefore was not able to read the article, therefore stopped reading the thread/replies.

The happiness lies in the fact that I am unable to offer a long-winded postas a reply.

My Friday gift to you, my treasured fellow forumites!!! <a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZNskw006' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_3_16.gif' alt='Kisses' border=0></a>

But yet still had that uncontrollable urge to post anyways!!

 

[K_Jo]

@ VV

 

[virgovictoria]

wtf

It's a joke, turdburger

 

[K_Jo]

It's a joke, turdburger

Damn, I don't want to eat at your house!

 

[somdcrab]

It's a joke, turdburger

weally

 

[dems4me]

Damn, I don't want to eat at your house!

first semen frosted brownies... now turdburgers

 

[virgovictoria]

first semen frosted brownies... now turdburgers

Better than boiled steaks...

 

[AC/DC]

first semen frosted brownies... now turdburgers

Just wait till she tells ya the ingredients are from the same source.