Just how do you handle this?

Vince

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aps45819 said:
Judge should have denied bail for this guy. He shouldn't be on the streets, but then if a judge denied bail for all the crap our jails would be full. Hey, what a good idea. Fill up the jails. Treat this crap like crap. Who cares about their living conditions, etc.
 

willie

Well-Known Member
If just one person at your job site reads or hears about somd.com then your only option is ask to be moved.
 

bresamil

wandering aimlessly
Knowing where you work, this person is either military, civil service, or contractor. In any case, they are customarily placed on administrative leave or alternate duty until something of this nature is sorted out. This happened in our office (contractor). The accused was immediately placed on leave and then LWOP until the case was tried. Since he finally admitted his guilt he had the joy of sitting in jail until the case came to trial. The justification for the leave was that he was accused of a criminal activity which jeopardized his clearance and therefore his ability to perform his work. There were no other "non sensitive" positions to available.
Does his supervisor know of these charges?
 
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HollowSoul

Guest
:wanting to kill this POS:
check this out....
The parents of the child......were ok with it, they didnt want to press charges!
The state of PA. stepped in and said they were gonna press charges..
Supposedly......SHE JUST HAS A MISCARRIGE!!!!!
He says....."we are going to try again"
He also says...."we are getting married"
He NEVER did any jail time!......
The state NEVER prosecuted!......
THE SEXUAL ACTS ARE STILL CONTINUING!!!!


several of us in the shop here want him dead.....but so do other shops and shifts.
there is no-where he can go and there isn't anywhere i can go that i won't still be in his "presence"
We have been told by our "chain of command" to "leave him alone" and "give him his space"...
If you see me on the news......i'm gonna need bail $$ :ohwell:
 

Jameo

What?!
HollowSoul said:
:wanting to kill this POS:
check this out....
The parents of the child......were ok with it, they didnt want to press charges!
The state of PA. stepped in and said they were gonna press charges..
Supposedly......SHE JUST HAS A MISCARRIGE!!!!!
He says....."we are going to try again"
He also says...."we are getting married"
He NEVER did any jail time!......
The state NEVER prosecuted!......
THE SEXUAL ACTS ARE STILL CONTINUING!!!!


several of us in the shop here want him dead.....but so do other shops and shifts.
there is no-where he can go and there isn't anywhere i can go that i won't still be in his "presence"
We have been told by our "chain of command" to "leave him alone" and "give him his space"...
If you see me on the news......i'm gonna need bail $$ :ohwell:

Why do you just listen to your chain of command!! And you best not do anything stupid!
 

morganj614

New Member
HollowSoul said:
:wanting to kill this POS:
check this out....
The parents of the child......were ok with it, they didnt want to press charges!
The state of PA. stepped in and said they were gonna press charges..
Supposedly......SHE JUST HAS A MISCARRIGE!!!!!
He says....."we are going to try again"
He also says...."we are getting married"
He NEVER did any jail time!......
The state NEVER prosecuted!......
THE SEXUAL ACTS ARE STILL CONTINUING!!!!


several of us in the shop here want him dead.....but so do other shops and shifts.
there is no-where he can go and there isn't anywhere i can go that i won't still be in his "presence"
We have been told by our "chain of command" to "leave him alone" and "give him his space"...
If you see me on the news......i'm gonna need bail $$ :ohwell:

Many years ago on this base there was a dad that molested his 2 yr. old daughter. Because his wife didn't press charges and wanted to work it out(sick sick sick) they let him stay in the Navy and he retired here. It makes me want to puke!
 

jwwb2000

pretty black roses
HollowSoul said:
:wanting to kill this POS:
check this out....
The parents of the child......were ok with it, they didnt want to press charges!
The state of PA. stepped in and said they were gonna press charges..
Supposedly......SHE JUST HAS A MISCARRIGE!!!!!
He says....."we are going to try again"
He also says...."we are getting married"
He NEVER did any jail time!......
The state NEVER prosecuted!......
THE SEXUAL ACTS ARE STILL CONTINUING!!!!


several of us in the shop here want him dead.....but so do other shops and shifts.
there is no-where he can go and there isn't anywhere i can go that i won't still be in his "presence"
We have been told by our "chain of command" to "leave him alone" and "give him his space"...
If you see me on the news......i'm gonna need bail $$ :ohwell:

That is just SAD!!!! Your COC needs to get him the fukc out of the working spaces he is in....They can send his azz TAD for awhile!!!
 

bresamil

wandering aimlessly
morganj614 said:
Many years ago on this base there was a dad that molested his 2 yr. old daughter. Because his wife didn't press charges and wanted to work it out(sick sick sick) they let him stay in the Navy and he retired here. It makes me want to puke!
The state didn't step in and press charges?
 

morganj614

New Member
bresamil said:
The state didn't step in and press charges?
Not that I know of. The Navy buried it and I found out this stuff years after it happened. I knew the family because he was stationed with the ex. My ex never even knew. That poor little girl! And they are still married.
 

bresamil

wandering aimlessly
morganj614 said:
Not that I know of. The Navy buried it and I found out this stuff years after it happened. I knew the family because he was stationed with the ex. My ex never even knew. That poor little girl! And they are still married.
Is he local? I have acreage and a shovel. :shrug:
 

Larry Gude

Strung Out
Hs...

BULLETIN:
You can't do anything about it without hurting yourself. Your daughter needs you.

Read again. Re-read and read again.

As hard as this is to deal with you HAVE TO, YOU MUST, find a way to control yourself or, frankly you are NO different than him, just another male who can't control himself.

This story is all screwed up, parental consent et al so you're not dealing with a guy who violently raped some innocent, helpless kid.

Chasey has a HUGE point...

They had sex "several" times. Who's to say this girl didn't claim to be older?

...and you just don't know all the facts but you do know enough to not be playing avenging angel.

There's gotta be a way the bossess can get rid of him or at least get him away from you...by the rules.
 
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HollowSoul

Guest
i know it sounds premeditated and if it happens:whistle: i am incrimminating myself...
but the thought of he and i working on an aircraft and he "accidentally" goes flying headfirst onto the ground.......sound real good right about now:mad:
 

Pete

Repete
HollowSoul said:
i know it sounds premeditated and if it happens:whistle: i am incrimminating myself...
but the thought of he and i working on an aircraft and he "accidentally" goes flying headfirst onto the ground.......sound real good right about now:mad:
How about this;

You stop acting like a chest beating, Neanderthal, out of control hysterical drama queen, and start acting like the professional you are supposed to be. Follow the direction given to you by your chain of command.

See how simple.
 

Chasey_Lane

Salt Life
HollowSoul said:
i know it sounds premeditated and if it happens:whistle: i am incrimminating myself...
but the thought of he and i working on an aircraft and he "accidentally" goes flying headfirst onto the ground.......sound real good right about now:mad:
I dated a guy who was accused of the same. He had been casually dating a minor at the time, but didn't know it; she lied about her age. Anyhow, her parents found out, she lied about the relationship and now he has a criminal record that will follow him around. She ended up marrying a gentleman several years older than my b/f at the time because he got her pregnant and her parents gave their blessing. :ohwell:
 
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HollowSoul

Guest
Pete said:
How about this;

You stop acting like a chest beating, Neanderthal, out of control hysterical drama queen, and start acting like the professional you are supposed to be. Follow the direction given to you by your chain of command.

See how simple.
no, it's not that simple....
its a bit of an extreme tangent but what if......
one of YOUR co-workers lets say MOLESTED your child and the GOT AWAY WITH IT,
or better yet let's say he MURDERED one of your family members and the got off of the charge on a technicality.....
just how long could you work next to the guy?

I know it's the smart thing to do is to "turn the cheek" but you have no idea how hard it is to do so..

and no.....no drama queen here....the wat i see it...the more people know about this,the harder it's gonna be for this scum to hide....because check this out....


FOR SOME BACKASSWARDS REASON......HE IS NOT OBLIGATED TO REGISTER AS A SEX OFFENDER!
 

Pete

Repete
HollowSoul said:
no, it's not that simple....
its a bit of an extreme tangent but what if......
one of YOUR co-workers lets say MOLESTED your child and the GOT AWAY WITH IT,
or better yet let's say he MURDERED one of your family members and the got off of the charge on a technicality.....
just how long could you work next to the guy?

I know it's the smart thing to do is to "turn the cheek" but you have no idea how hard it is to do so..

and no.....no drama queen here....the wat i see it...the more people know about this,the harder it's gonna be for this scum to hide....because check this out....


FOR SOME BACKASSWARDS REASON......HE IS NOT OBLIGATED TO REGISTER AS A SEX OFFENDER!
I see I overestimated your ability to act like a professional. Carry on acting like a shrieking nut job :yay:
 

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
HollowSoul said:
one of YOUR co-workers lets say MOLESTED your child and the GOT AWAY WITH IT,
Get a grip. It sounds like the girl had a relationship with the guy and the parents were fully approving. Some people are like that - want to foist their spawn off ASAP to the highest bidder.

Elvis and Priscilla.

Jerry Lee and Cousin Myra.

You have to wonder about an adult guy who's so immature that he wants some 14 year old kid. But, even worse, you have to wonder about parents that approve of the relationship. So forget the guy - go kick the #### out of the parents if you want to punish someone.
 

bresamil

wandering aimlessly
vraiblonde said:
You have to wonder about an adult guy who's so immature that he wants some 14 year old kid. But, even worse, you have to wonder about parents that approve of the relationship. So forget the guy - go kick the #### out of the parents if you want to punish someone.

:yeahthat:

I remember going to middle school with a girl that was wondering who she was going to marry. I told her that was YEARS away. She said, "No, all the women in my family get married by age 13." She wasn't kidding. Luckily she broke the mold and made it to an old woman of 24 before getting hitched.
 

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
It's interesting that most of us had such a negative reaction to this guy - I know I did.

My how times change.

My great grandparents were married when she was 15 and he was 22 or 23 and that's considered a "sweet" love story in our family. But today, that would be child molestation and my grandfather would be sneered at in the community.

So isn't it interesting how our attitudes have changed over the years? I think it's because we don't raise our daughters anymore with the sole purpose of them catching a husband - we raise them to follow their dreams, get an education, pursue a career, etc. And of course you can't do those things if you're married and have babies.
 
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