Just to Vent.....sorry

mAlice

professional daydreamer
If you are no longer in a relationship with someone, why would you care who their sleeping with?
 

jaimommy4

New Member
Christ, grow up! "That kinda girl", "girl code", "bad friend" yet you ladies will be the first to scream "All is fair in love and war" when you want to show your ass. If he was your ex than he was your ex. I hooked my ex up with a girlfriend of mine that I like very much. He's a good guy, just not for me. The break up-get back together nonsense is CRAP and I know I've done it. Let go move the hell on and if he finds happiness with one of your friends you should be happy that its someone you obviously approve of personally (she was your friend after all) opposed to some biatch who's a horrible person and is gonna be nasty to you and your child. AND to talk crap about her now because he likes her better at the present moment shows just what kind of character you have, or lack. Get over it, move on and find yourself someone that will make you happy that you won't have to break up with to get their attention. :yay:

wow ok well, i told them both ya know what if you want to have a relationship with each other go ahead but they were both being shady about it and hooked up at my house after she invited him there knowing that i didnt want him there. Im pissed because thats beyond disrespectful. I plan on moving on and being treated nicely. I just dont unerstand how people who are supposed to be my friends could do that and lie about it.
 
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Beth_kennedy

Guest
yea i noticed that after i posted it SORRY but i mean im not looking for advice i really just wanted to vent. however after reading some of the responses in other threads yall are gonna say your peace if i wanted it or not

yeah that happens when you post something in an open forum....
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
If you are no longer in a relationship with someone, why would you care who their sleeping with?

Because since they had sex he will always be partially her property and he can never have sex with anyone ever again without her having a problem with it.

I was glad when my ex fianlly took a girlfriend.
 

Mojo

New Member
Because since they had sex he will always be partially her property and he can never have sex with anyone ever again without her having a problem with it.

I was glad when my ex fianlly took a girlfriend.

Does this mean I can make sweet love to misskitty when you are done with him :hot:
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
wow ok well, i told them both ya know what if you want to have a relationship with each other go ahead but they were both being shady about it and hooked up at my house after she invited him there knowing that i didnt want him there. Im pissed because thats beyond disrespectful. I plan on moving on and being treated nicely. I just dont unerstand how people who are supposed to be my friends could do that and lie about it.

People often do stupid things with the best of intentions. Did you ever consider they may have thought you'd over react and didn't want to deal with any drama or that maybe they thought you may be hurt and thus tried not to hurt you?
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
wow ok well, i told them both ya know what if you want to have a relationship with each other go ahead but they were both being shady about it and hooked up at my house after she invited him there knowing that i didnt want him there. Im pissed because thats beyond disrespectful. I plan on moving on and being treated nicely. I just dont unerstand how people who are supposed to be my friends could do that and lie about it.

And if my own mother showed up at my house and I didn't want her there I'd show her the door. Why would you let him in if it was your party and you didn't want him there? That makes no sense.

I'm not trying to be overly biatchy, just reasonable.
 

jaimommy4

New Member
Because since they had sex he will always be partially her property and he can never have sex with anyone ever again without her having a problem with it.

I was glad when my ex fianlly took a girlfriend.

Thats not it at all my biggest issue with him is that we were trying to work it out. And be back together. And then he just starts being with her. If they want to have a relationship then so be it. Just dont lie and dont sleep together at my house thats just rude
 
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Queenofdenile1

Love is Blind
I don't understand how some girls just don't know that its not ok to sleep with your friends ex. I mean yeah its ok if you guys were together in like middle/high school but a serious relationship. PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME IF IM IN THE WRONG FOR BEING UPSET.

My son's father and I have been broken up for awhile but had talked about getting back together and working out our issues. We went on a trip out of town to see some family and I asked my "friend" if she wanted to come down and hang out for my b-day. She did and that's when the two of them met. Well apparently they started hanging out after we came back home. Well my b-day was on thursday so we had a party friday night. I of course invited her to come down and she said we would. Well ever since coming home from VA my son's dad and I had not been getting a long and I couldnt figure out why. I didn't want him to come to the party because I didnt want any drama and so I didnt invite him. Well she proceeds to invite him to my house and tried to deny it. Then they go off by themselves for the whole entire night. Which i thought was super rude. Well long story short they have been sleeping with each other and she's still trying to deny that they were starting to have a relationship. Which ya know what if they want to fine dont disrespect me by messing around at my house. And it got really ugly after that...and now she's mad at me because I'm so upset about it.

I'm really not looking for anyone to respond i just needed to vent!!!!


Can't entirely blame her. Takes two to TANGO and he's not a great prize for you. Perhaps this is a good sign for you to finally say "It's time to MOVE ON" and find someone else!!! He's obviously not as committed about getting back together as you. I'm not trying to be insensitive, just honest and maybe this is what needed to happen for you to press on with your life.
 

Mojo

New Member
Thats not it at all my biggest issue with him is that we were trying to work it out. And be back together. And then he just starts being with her. If they want to have a relationship then so be it. Just dont like and dont sleep together at my house thats just rude

Think about this way, you may have been trying to get back together with him but he obviously didn't feel the same about you. Just hook up with a hard hitting brotha and then ride around in a wheelchair in front of your Ex, that should make him jealous.
 

jaimommy4

New Member
Think about this way, you may have been trying to get back together with him but he obviously didn't feel the same about you. Just hook up with a hard hitting brotha and then ride around in a wheelchair in front of your Ex, that should make him jealous.

LOL Im gonna pass on that one, but you all are right and i have already told him that we will never be together, and now he's all upset but Im done and ready to move on to someone that will be better. All im #####ing about is the lies and the disrespect on both sides. NOt just her him to
 
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Beth_kennedy

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Thats not it at all my biggest issue with him is that we were trying to work it out. And be back together. And then he just starts being with her. If they want to have a relationship then so be it. Just dont lie and dont sleep together at my house thats just rude

That does not mean he cannot see people. If he was interested in making it work with you then he would not have going out with her or anyone else. They are both adults and do not need your permission to be together.

yea i told my sons father he should prolly go get tested i think it scared him a little bit. But your right people just dont care about anybody but themselves. And whats messed up is yesterday at one point i called her phone and a guy answered who was apparently her bf that nobody not even me knew about...needless to say he wasnt to happy

The word is Probably not prolly. Mind your own busness about who answers her phone you have no rights to make assumptions.

Wasn't happy about what??

Are you saying you blabbed your friends information to somone that you don't know, who just answered her phone?
 
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jaimommy4

New Member
That does not mean he cannot see people. If he was interested in making it work then he would not have going out with her or anyone else. They are both adults and do not need your permission to be together.



the word is Probably not prolly. Mind your own busness about who answers her phone you have no rights to make assumptions. Wasn't happy about what?? Are you saying you blabbed your friends information to somone that you don't know, who just answered her phone?

He is her bf, he pays her cell phone bill and she was at his house and he read the text messages and when i called to talk to her he answered and he wanted to know what was going on. And if i want to write prolly instead of probably so be it because im pretty sure you dont get graded on grammer in the forums
 
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Beth_kennedy

Guest
He is her bf, he pays her cell phone bill and she was at his house and he read the text messages and when i called to talk to her he answered and he wanted to know what was going on. And if i want to write prolly instead of probably so be it because im pretty sure you dont get graded on grammer in the forums

UFB, you really do need to move on.

If he wanted information about her, he should go to her and you should have told him so.... he could say anything he wanted to over the phone, who is to say it was true since you did not know him....

Sounds to me and I could be wrong..you were pissed off they hooked up and you are doing everything you can to get back at her.

Move on, there are many others out there that would be better for you and your son.

Nothing to do about being "graded", I would explain it to you but to be honest, I can already tell it would be a waste of time.
 
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jjsmommy99

Guest
He is her bf, he pays her cell phone bill and she was at his house and he read the text messages and when i called to talk to her he answered and he wanted to know what was going on. And if i want to write prolly instead of probably so be it because im pretty sure you dont get graded on grammer in the forums

good thing because you can't even spell grammar!
 

MissKitty

New Member
Thats not it at all my biggest issue with him is that we were trying to work it out. And be back together. And then he just starts being with her. If they want to have a relationship then so be it. Just dont lie and dont sleep together at my house thats just rude

Maybe you "THOUGHT" that you guys were trying to work it out, and he wasn't thinking that at all. :shrug:
 
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Beth_kennedy

Guest
good thing because you can't even spell grammar!

:killingme

I am all for relax talking in here and I have made my share of typo's but......slang....lower case i instead of "I" and so on is a lack of respect to readers....
























There I said it....:evil:
 

jaimommy4

New Member
good thing because you can't even spell grammar!

yea my bad on that...sorry

Actually I'm just mad that they hooked up at my house. Thats just disrespectful. As for her bf he already knew most of the info. bc he had been reading the txt going back and forth between the 3 of us. And yeah I was super pissed bc I think what the two of them did was wrong. He can be with whoever he wants my thing with him is dont sit there and tell me you want us to be back together and a family again and all the I love you crap when it's all a lie. Thats what im mad about
 
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