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kris31280

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pixiegirl said:
Christ, grow up! "That kinda girl", "girl code", "bad friend" yet you ladies will be the first to scream "All is fair in love and war" when you want to show your ass. If he was your ex than he was your ex. I hooked my ex up with a girlfriend of mine that I like very much. He's a good guy, just not for me. The break up-get back together nonsense is CRAP and I know I've done it. Let go move the hell on and if he finds happiness with one of your friends you should be happy that its someone you obviously approve of personally (she was your friend after all) opposed to some biatch who's a horrible person and is gonna be nasty to you and your child. AND to talk crap about her now because he likes her better at the present moment shows just what kind of character you have, or lack. Get over it, move on and find yourself someone that will make you happy that you won't have to break up with to get their attention. :yay:
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Girl code states that, with permission, a friend can hook up with an ex...

I dated my best friend's ex husband... she set us up. She freaked out and ended up in the psych ward because of it (after making him choose between me and his kids), but all in all, it wasn't against girl code rules because it was with her permission.

In this situation, it appears no blessings were given and he was still hittin' it with the baby mama (and appears living with off and on)... so he acted like a guy, her supposed friend acted like a whore, and a bevy of relationships were destroyed as a result.

And it is absolutely disrespectful to be shady about a sexual relationship and then proceed to do the dirty in your ex's house when you're still being casual with the ex.
 
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jaimommy4

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kris31280 said:
Girl code states that, with permission, a friend can hook up with an ex...

I dated my best friend's ex husband... she set us up. She freaked out and ended up in the psych ward because of it (after making him choose between me and his kids), but all in all, it wasn't against girl code rules because it was with her permission.

In this situation, it appears no blessings were given and he was still hittin' it with the baby mama (and appears living with off and on)... so he acted like a guy, her supposed friend acted like a whore, and a bevy of relationships were destroyed as a result.

And it is absolutely disrespectful to be shady about a sexual relationship and then proceed to do the dirty in your ex's house when you're still being casual with the ex.
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Thank you! And I even told them both before I knew for sure that they were sleeping together (bc people at the party were tellling me stuff) that if they wanted to be together then fine. They both tried to deny it at first and then came clean and don't want anything to do with each other. Which is sad because they both made a stupid mistake (there words not mine) and now I will have nothing to do with either one of them (unless it's about something with our child)
 
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jaimommy4

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sockgirl77 said:
:yeahthat: He was probably just screwing her and her friend at the same time. The more the merrier?
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We hadn't slept together since we came home from VA. Granted I did stay the night there with our child, but I don't give it up that easy just because he said he wanted us to be together. I'm glad I didn't.
 
pixiegirl

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
kris31280 said:
Girl code states that, with permission, a friend can hook up with an ex...

I dated my best friend's ex husband... she set us up. She freaked out and ended up in the psych ward because of it (after making him choose between me and his kids), but all in all, it wasn't against girl code rules because it was with her permission.

In this situation, it appears no blessings were given and he was still hittin' it with the baby mama (and appears living with off and on)... so he acted like a guy, her supposed friend acted like a whore, and a bevy of relationships were destroyed as a result.

And it is absolutely disrespectful to be shady about a sexual relationship and then proceed to do the dirty in your ex's house when you're still being casual with the ex.
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They were not together no one needs ANY permission. I guess I don't need "girl" code because I expect people that I'm sleeping with, dating, what have you or friends with to be, well, grownups. When you start applying "rules" to friendships and relationships you inhibit people from behaving in the manner that they want to which hides who they really are. Take you, MK and myself for example. I don't need to lay out ground rules for either of you because I expect that you care about me and will behave as such. If I pass out on the couch and you to sneak off and bang, you are a $hitty friend and he's an ass and neither of you are worth my time. One shouldn't have to lay out a "code of conduct" for friendship.

And like I told the OP, if she didn't want the ex at her house she should have shown him the door. People WILL act in the nature that is true to them. This dude was obviously a prick, she probably knew it but with the "on and off" was still "hopeful" that he would change and love her the way she wanted him to.

I'm not saying he's not an idiot or the friend isn't a slut; I'm saying the OP is being overly dramatic over a situation she should have seen from a mile away.
 
sockgirl77

sockgirl77

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pixiegirl said:
They were not together no one needs ANY permission. I guess I don't need "girl" code because I expect people that I'm sleeping with, dating, what have you or friends with to be, well, grownups. When you start applying "rules" to friendships and relationships you inhibit people from behaving in the manner that they want to which hides who they really are. Take you, MK and myself for example. I don't need to lay out ground rules for either of you because I expect that you care about me and will behave as such. If I pass out on the couch and you to sneak off and bang, you are a $hitty friend and he's an ass and neither of you are worth my time. One shouldn't have to lay out a "code of conduct" for friendship.

And like I told the OP, if she didn't want the ex at her house she should have shown him the door. People WILL act in the nature that is true to them. This dude was obviously a prick, she probably knew it but with the "on and off" was still "hopeful" that he would change and love her the way she wanted him to.

I'm not saying he's not an idiot or the friend isn't a slut; I'm saying the OP is being overly dramatic over a situation she should have seen from a mile away.
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I think that the OP is just hurt and emotional right now. She'll wake up one day and thank her friend for taking him off of her hands. Dude is a dog. He just wanted ass. He'll play her friend too. Karma is a biatch.
 
Mojo

Mojo

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pixiegirl said:
They were not together no one needs ANY permission. I guess I don't need "girl" code because I expect people that I'm sleeping with, dating, what have you or friends with to be, well, grownups. When you start applying "rules" to friendships and relationships you inhibit people from behaving in the manner that they want to which hides who they really are. Take you, MK and myself for example. I don't need to lay out ground rules for either of you because I expect that you care about me and will behave as such. If I pass out on the couch and you to sneak off and bang, you are a $hitty friend and he's an ass and neither of you are worth my time. One shouldn't have to lay out a "code of conduct" for friendship.

And like I told the OP, if she didn't want the ex at her house she should have shown him the door. People WILL act in the nature that is true to them. This dude was obviously a prick, she probably knew it but with the "on and off" was still "hopeful" that he would change and love her the way she wanted him to.

I'm not saying he's not an idiot or the friend isn't a slut; I'm saying the OP is being overly dramatic over a situation she should have seen from a mile away.
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:roflmao:
 
pixiegirl

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
sockgirl77 said:
I think that the OP is just hurt and emotional right now. She'll wake up one day and thank her friend for taking him off of her hands. Dude is a dog. He just wanted ass. He'll play her friend too. Karma is a biatch.
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Socks, for the record, you are not allowed to sleep with my man. :yay: Don't you feel that our friendship is better off now that I told you that.
 
Mojo

Mojo

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pixiegirl said:
Would you like to go out on a date with my ex? I'm sure after you threw it on him he may actually speak to you. Your hooters may just be what he needs to get over the hump.
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:lol: He would be in a full body cast after I finished with him.
 
Mojo

Mojo

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kwillia said:
No really people... I want to know if it's okay to boink at family bbqs...:tap:
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It's a risk you have to be willing to take :shrug: I still remember when my grandpa was putting a pounding on his girlfriend, he was sitting a little close to the BBQ and one of his nads fell in there :ohwell:
 
pixiegirl

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
kwillia said:
No really people... I want to know if it's okay to boink at family bbqs...:tap:
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Well for the two people involved yes. I think one has to take it on a situational basis almost. And NO! MK and I have not boinked at a family bbq yet.
 
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