Pete
Repete
My POS ex wife had not called her son in over a week. He wanted to call her so being the good guy I am I said sure and dialed the phone for him. He left a message because she was not there as usual. We tried her work but she was not working that night. Well she calls me at work the next day and asks if she can get him next weekend. Me being the good guy I am I say sure. Her visit involves me trekking him up to Wilmington, DE after work, 3 hour drive and back, 3 hour drive, about $25 in gas and another $2 to $13 in tolls, plus food and crap.
Well I tell Boy about this that evening and he is like “Crap! My last soccer game is that Saturday and I get my trophy and the pizza party and stuff !” Stupid me forgot. Not a big deal so I try to call her last night, she is not there so I leave a message. “I made a mistake about next weekend, I told Boy and he reminded me about his last soccer game and trophy and pizza party and he is upset about missing it and doesn’t want to miss it.” Me being the reasonably decent human would think she would understand and not want her kid to miss his last soccer game.
I guessed wrong, she called and left a message (couldn’t even have the ovaries to call me on my cell like she always does every other time and confront me directly.) and starts guilt tripping ME about her Christmas cards not having him in the picture, his half brother (the hobo) his half sister (the welfare queen) and his niece (the illegitimate kid of the welfare queen) will all be there for the photo. Boooo Hoooooo. She wants to talk to Boy and “without pressuring him” let him know that they all are going to be there and want to have a picture taken and he needs to decide if he wants that or soccer game. HOW EFFING UNBLEIVABLE IS THAT guilt tripping a 8 year old.
It gets better, now the wench now decides that her visitation is not enough and wants to go back to the 2 weekends on and 1 weekend off schedule “it is supposed to be”
1. The visitation was redrawn when we moved and signed by the judge, she is not “supposed” to get him on the old schedule like when we lived 40 miles apart.
2. I am not going to spend half my life driving him to DE and back 3 weekends out of the month 300 miles round trip.
3. I am certainly not going to effing spend about $50 a week transporting him to see her when she has not paid child support in over 18 months and is $4,465.28 behind.
Now I have accommodated her in every sense of the word. I have allowed her to come and spend weekends here with him. I have driven him up there countless times whenever she has asked. I have not pushed the Child Support issue AT ALL because she was going through tough time after tough time.
This is living proof some people are selfish pigs and want everything done for them.
Well I tell Boy about this that evening and he is like “Crap! My last soccer game is that Saturday and I get my trophy and the pizza party and stuff !” Stupid me forgot. Not a big deal so I try to call her last night, she is not there so I leave a message. “I made a mistake about next weekend, I told Boy and he reminded me about his last soccer game and trophy and pizza party and he is upset about missing it and doesn’t want to miss it.” Me being the reasonably decent human would think she would understand and not want her kid to miss his last soccer game.
I guessed wrong, she called and left a message (couldn’t even have the ovaries to call me on my cell like she always does every other time and confront me directly.) and starts guilt tripping ME about her Christmas cards not having him in the picture, his half brother (the hobo) his half sister (the welfare queen) and his niece (the illegitimate kid of the welfare queen) will all be there for the photo. Boooo Hoooooo. She wants to talk to Boy and “without pressuring him” let him know that they all are going to be there and want to have a picture taken and he needs to decide if he wants that or soccer game. HOW EFFING UNBLEIVABLE IS THAT guilt tripping a 8 year old.
It gets better, now the wench now decides that her visitation is not enough and wants to go back to the 2 weekends on and 1 weekend off schedule “it is supposed to be”
1. The visitation was redrawn when we moved and signed by the judge, she is not “supposed” to get him on the old schedule like when we lived 40 miles apart.
2. I am not going to spend half my life driving him to DE and back 3 weekends out of the month 300 miles round trip.
3. I am certainly not going to effing spend about $50 a week transporting him to see her when she has not paid child support in over 18 months and is $4,465.28 behind.
Now I have accommodated her in every sense of the word. I have allowed her to come and spend weekends here with him. I have driven him up there countless times whenever she has asked. I have not pushed the Child Support issue AT ALL because she was going through tough time after tough time.
This is living proof some people are selfish pigs and want everything done for them.
for Pete.
It is a shame (IMO) that she is so self centered and wrapped up in her own life that she doesn't see the obvious.
I'm soo sorry to hear about all this. 
She sounds very, very selfish. Why don't you send pictures to her of him playing in his last game, getting a trophy, etc.. and have her put that on the Christmas card. :shrug: