Kids being "Ugly"

[Unosmom]

I couldn't do that even if I wanted too! Kidding around is one thing doing it is another! I can't believe someone actuallly did that!

 

[Vince]

Just in this short time of checking this thread, I have had to put her back into her room and yell at her again! All I get, is "But I wanted to." AGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Some-one, Any-one Please come and help me use the spoon to slice my wrists!

Forget the spoon to slice your wrists. Pick up the wooden spoon and start swatting. Let the spankings commence.

 

[Unosmom]

Ya know I have thought about that, but in todays world if you spank your kids, Bad things can happen. So, I won't go there! I will, however, use and empty threat!

 

[Unosmom]

I think that her ears have fallen off the childs head! She still ain't listening!!!!! Have to go yell at her again!

 

[RoseRed]

Ya know I have thought about that, but in todays world if you spank your kids, Bad things can happen. So, I won't go there! I will, however, use and empty threat!

Don't leave marks.

 

[sweetpea]

Forget the spoon to slice your wrists. Pick up the wooden spoon and start swatting. Let the spankings commence.

Oh that is so true...however the butt bustings have not worked in the past week...

 

[Unosmom]

I have to keep walking away!!!!! Otherwise my flying Monkeys will go all over the poor child. I am hoping this just the season!

 

[RoseRed]

Perhaps she just wants some attention. Go read her a story or take her for a walk.

 

[sweetpea]

Yeah i thought mine just wanted some attention too. I'd do something with her and then off she goes to play in her room. Mommy who? But you let me pick up the phone or get on the computer when she's off playing...oh he11 no!

 

[Unosmom]

She always wants attention! She is a middle child. I have 2 others. I think that because her father went to the Football game today she can do whatever she wants! I honestly think I am fighting a losing battle!

 

[Vince]

Yelling does no good. Use the palm of your hand and start swinging. Spanking is not child abuse. If they threatened to take my children away for me spanking them, they would have WWIII on their hands. My father gave us the strap when we were kids and we grew up just fine. I wasn't an abusive parent, a serial killer or even a car thief. I grew up OK. I think?

 

[Unosmom]

Yeah! I think all of us use to get a spanking, and most of turned out fine! But, I still won't do it.

 

[sweetpea]

Yelling does no good. Use the palm of your hand and start swinging. Spanking is not child abuse. If they threatened to take my children away for me spanking them, they would have WWIII on their hands. My father gave us the strap when we were kids and we grew up just fine. I wasn't an abusive parent, a serial killer or even a car thief. I grew up OK. I think?

You're right on that but the last week mine just kept up...push push push...I finally asked her if she liked her butt smacked. Sometimes i gotta walk away cuz she just has to push that last button.

 

[Unosmom]

Tell me about It!!!!!!!! They just continue to push!

 

[RoseRed]

But, I still won't do it.

That's to bad.

I do spank, but only as a last resort. When I threaten to do it, she knows I mean business and usually straightens up before I have to do so.

Send them outside to run off some of their energy, it is a pretty day and not that cold outside.

 

[Unosmom]

Have tried that! They were out for about 2 hours this morning, and they came in because, "They wanted to". Lets see how far we can push mommy today! She even got her sisters involved in that. She will see the inside of her room for the next hour. She needs to clean it anyway!

 

[sweetpea]

Tell me about It!!!!!!!! They just continue to push!

I will bust my childs azz.
It brings her back to reality for the most part. But this past week she just has not let up. As i said my sis is having a problem w/ her child as well. I really think they are so worked up about xmas they are just losing their little minds. That is all I've been hearing bout for the past week or so.

 

[Vince]

You're right on that but the last week mine just kept up...push push push...I finally asked her if she liked her butt smacked. Sometimes i gotta walk away cuz she just has to push that last button.

Put them to work. If they have something to do they don't have time to give you sh!t, but then we're talking about 6yr olds. At 6 they are going to act up. I never asked mine if they wanted a smack. I just did it. And it didn't matter where we were or who was watching. Permissive parenting doesn't work. You'd think people would get the message by now. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying to swat them everytime they're bad, but an empty threat is no threat. A kids are smart and they know if you'll punish them or not.

 

[Unosmom]

Me too! Hopefully once Xmas is done and over with, things will go back to normal.

I hate threatening her! But what choice to I have? She has been so bad this week that spanking her or threatening to spank her will work at this point.

 

[Vince]

That's to bad.

I do spank, but only as a last resort. When I threaten to do it, she knows I mean business and usually straightens up before I have to do so.

And that's only because she knows you'll do it.