Ladies: If your s/o was buying drinks in the club...

Qurious

Qurious

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...for women he just met that night. Would you have a problem with this?

Please explain why you wouldn't or would.

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Fellas: Would you have a problem with your lady accepting drinks from another man while you two are together in the club?



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nomoney

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I only would have a problem because he'd be buying...that's my money to fool! :lol: But if someone bought him drinks i dont care, one less we have to buy.
 
Qurious

Qurious

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Dougstermd said:
I would have no ptroblem with her accepting the drinks cause she is going home with me.
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R U SURE BOUT THAT? :killingme



Im surprised at the answers so far. Its total violation of a relationship and a marriage. Its disrespectful...

Why not tell her to go on the dance floor and shake her ass for the guy who bought the drink?
 
kwillia

kwillia

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Qurious said:
Im surprised at the answers so far. Its total violation of a relationship and a marriage. Its disrespectful...

Why not tell her to go on the dance floor and shake her ass for the guy who bought the drink?
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I don't see it as disrespectful at all. IMO, buying someone a drink does not constitute an invitation to rub uglies. I trust my man and my man trust me...:shrug:
 
Qurious

Qurious

Im On 1.
dudes aren't spending money on drinks because "they got it like that." they are buying it in exchange for some sort of interest that they want you to give up...whether thats conversation, your time, your phone number, and even sex.

I don't beleive guys are just buying strangers drinks "just because."
 
kwillia

kwillia

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Qurious said:
dudes aren't spending money on drinks because "they got it like that." they are buying it in exchange for some sort of interest that they want you to give up...whether thats conversation, your time, your phone number, and even sex.

I don't beleive guys are just buying strangers drinks "just because."
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I'm not talking about other men and I'm not speaking for other women. I'm talking about my man, and speaking for myself. Your view does not fit the reality that is us.
 
Dougstermd

Dougstermd

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Qurious said:
R U SURE BOUT THAT? :killingme



Im surprised at the answers so far. Its total violation of a relationship and a marriage. Its disrespectful...

Why not tell her to go on the dance floor and shake her ass for the guy who bought the drink?
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I am sure who ever I took would come home with me. I would encourage her to go dance for him. I am not insecure:shrug:
 
Toxick

Toxick

Splat
Qurious said:
Fellas: Would you have a problem with your lady accepting drinks from another man while you two are together in the club?
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Sheah.. I'd have a problem with it.

I remember being single.

I remember going to clubs.

And I remember buying drinks for women.


I remember what it meant when I bought the drink - and I certainly remember what it meant when they accepted the drink.


Buying someone a drink is most definitely an invitation to rub uglies - at the very least a social advance. You think the guy bought you a drink because you look thirsty?

Accepting a drink is not necessarily a green light for intercourse, and of course there is no obligation to exchange fluids.

However, I can't think of a single time that a woman accepted a drink from me, and said, "Thanks, I was thirsty" and went about her business. Every time the drink was accepted it signaled an acknowledgement of at least being open to my advance.
 
Chasey_Lane

Chasey_Lane

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kwillia said:
My husband doesn't dance to the music I like to dance to, so he welcomes and even encourages me to go dance with whomever I want...:shrug:
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My husband likes dancing with my friends. That is all. :lmao: :killingme
 
Toxick

Toxick

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Dougstermd said:
I am sure who ever I took would come home with me. I would encourage her to go dance for him. I am not insecure:shrug:
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How about she takes him into the john for a lap-dance.


As long as she goes home with you.
 
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