If I may ...
I know these are exercises of futility with you, but these posts do help hone my writing skills.
Well now, I reckon those parents of that gay 14 year old kid are quite disappointed at his/her choice of enjoying sex and a relationship with another same sex person. Seems they are the ones being closed minded and bigoted to the extreme of disowning and throwing to the street their own flesh and blood. Maybe they are not the understanding caring and loving parents that the vast majority of accepting parents are and do stand by, support, and still continue to love their child when they find out their child is gay. Hey, in a Nation of over 300 Million, there's gonna be some hurt people. There's gonna be parents kicking out kids for being gay, for doing drugs, for doing whatever some parents find verboten. Can't stop it. Futile to even try.
I've already explained to you that I am accepting of people who are, born-that-way, or of their chosen lifestyle. Just don't want it in my face, shouted at me, on display in parades, or having Drag Queens groom children, etc.
Your wheelchair straw man argument is nonsensical and has no application to this subject. No parent in their right mind would treat their child in such a fashion and would do whatever is necessary to accommodate their child's needs.
I also never said I agree with gays being discriminated against. It should not happen. The, "blame", as you call it, lies with those gays that get in the faces of people and foist their anger, vexation, resentment, and outrage, upon others, just because not everyone is accepting of their lifestyle. That's not discrimination. That is backlash. That is someone being hit, hitting back. That is an extremely small group, pissing off an extremely large group of people. It's not the condition of being gay that a person is being discriminated against, (though it does happen. Just not to the degree it is made out to be. Just as blacks are discriminated against, as well as whites, Asians, etc.), it is the attitude, the deportment, of the person that gives the impression of being discriminated against. If a gay person applies for a job with a good demeanor, expectations are no one would care and most likely not even give it a second thought to hire that person, if qualified. If a gay applies for a job with the attitude during the process displaying, or indicating, a, 'you better hire me because I'm gay', chances are that's not gonna happen, just based on the disposition of the person.
I would say it is a very very very small fraction, say, 0.0001% of gays, actually being discriminated against just because, and only because, they are gay. Same goes with blacks, white, or any other race. I would say, people discriminate, (and rightly, naturally, so), solely because of the attitude, demeanor, displayed behavior, and disposition, of a person. Who would want to hang with someone they didn't like because of bad personal qualities? Regardless of a person's lifestyle, color, race, if a person never showers, cusses all the time, is demeaning to others, uses drugs, is an alcoholic, is narcissistic, or of whatever other unsavory qualities they may have, who would want to be around someone like that? All people, everybody, everyone, discriminates in that fashion. It is completely natural.
And I already told you that if my position makes you feel I am a bigot, then I proudly stand as one.