meeting females outside of bars
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justhangn
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and chasing you around like a puppy is not playing games??
I've always thought that eye contact should be enough between two people that click.
I went to high school with my first husband and met Larry on the Internet. But I've also met a lot of great guys at bars - guys I not only dated but that became good friends. Not everyone at a bar is a drunk, ya know.
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justhangn
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Right you're sure.......agree I couldn't more.....
Some really boring people only go to bars to shoot pool.
Hello! Dancing? Just plain socializing? And what's wrong with shooting pool?
I always think it's interesting that people look down on someone they've met in a bar. I mean, you're there, aren't you? Or does that answer my question?
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justhangn
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SO the guy has to play no games while paying attention to you without chasing you.....I guess he'll just have to wait to be caught by you then.
it's give pixie a hard time day
pixiegirl
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Originally posted by vraiblonde
Hello! Dancing? Just plain socializing? And what's wrong with shooting pool?
I always think it's interesting that people look down on someone they've met in a bar. I mean, you're there, aren't you? Or does that answer my question?
I'm there but I thought I made it clear several months ago that I'm better then everyone!
So she got it then had it taken away. 
Sometimes guys can do that and it's charming and endearing - depends on how they go about it. If a guy is very witty and has good self-esteem (without being obnoxious) then he can get away with the chase. Otherwise he probably better not try it.
I met a great guy at the Pier one night when he plopped down at my table and wouldn't leave. I tossed every barb I could think of his way, trying to offend him enough so he'd beat it. He tossed them right back in a very Bluto-esque fashion, causing my girlfriends to fall madly in love with him. "It's just like Moonlighting!", they swooned.
Anyway, he chased me from bar to bar that night and one of my traitor girlfriends gave him my phone number. He called and talked me into going out with him - we dated off and on for a couple of years.But he pulled it off as very charming and a guy who had "set his sights", not as some stalker nutcase.
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justhangn
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Yea Craig.....we know you have the key to her heart!
My ex-roommate met her husband in a bar - she picked him up for a one-nighter and never came home. Married 7 years now with 2 kids, madly in love and very happy.