Middle Schooler with a cell phone

Take the phone to school?

  • Yes

    Votes: 32 64.0%
  • No

    Votes: 18 36.0%

  • Total voters
    50

cattitude

My Sweetest Boy
I'd say yes with the caveat that it is to remain OFF unless he needs to get in touch with you or someone in the event of an emergency. I don't even know what the rule is during school these days.

Of course, there's the theft/loss issue to deal with as well.
 

Chasey_Lane

Salt Life
Daughter takes hers to school. She keeps it off during the day and turns it on once she's off the bus. I like the idea of her having her phone with her in case something happens.
 
Yes if it is programmed to only call home, dad work, dad cell and 911. Otherwise no need for shorty to have a cell phone.
 

Chasey_Lane

Salt Life
I'd say yes with the caveat that it is to remain OFF unless he needs to get in touch with you or someone in the event of an emergency.
Calls/text messages can be viewed easily so you know if he's not following this rule. You abuse your privilege, you lose it.
 

jwwb2000

pretty black roses
My daughter takes her phone with her everywhere she goes, this includes school. I have it set up where there are only select callers she can receive/make calls or text to. She sets it to vibrate and it never leaves her backpack while in school.
 

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

Well-Known Member
Calls/text messages can be viewed easily so you know if he's not following this rule. You abuse your privilege, you lose it.

See, that is the right idea but then what happens when you go and take it away? You just defeated the whole purpose of them having it for emergency situations. Tough call, eh?
 

Hoover

New Member
Yes. Our son has had a cell phone since he was 8. We live a distance from the bus stop and if we or grandma (Grandma is unreliable with her phone so he is our backup) isn't at the stop when the bus arrives he can call and find out our ETA.
 

cattitude

My Sweetest Boy
See, that is the right idea but then what happens when you go and take it away? You just defeated the whole purpose of them having it for emergency situations. Tough call, eh?

Actually, many of us elderly individuals managed just fine without a cell phone and we WALKED fairly good distances to/from school...even elementary school. :yikes:
 

Pete

Repete
Calls/text messages can be viewed easily so you know if he's not following this rule. You abuse your privilege, you lose it.

Somebody got busted taking their cell to school against my rule. He did not get busted by the school it was by me. I was looking for it this morning and it was not there so I knew he did it. Of course he lied until I gave him the "I am going to ask you one more time" thing.

I am anticipating the "It was off in my backpack" explanation but I am going to check it when I get home. If any txt messages were sent during school hours someone is going to be hating life.
 

lovinmaryland

Well-Known Member
Somebody got busted taking their cell to school against my rule. He did not get busted by the school it was by me. I was looking for it this morning and it was not there so I knew he did it. Of course he lied until I gave him the "I am going to ask you one more time" thing.

I am anticipating the "It was off in my backpack" explanation but I am going to check it when I get home. If any txt messages were sent during school hours someone is going to be hating life.

couldnt he just delete any messages he sent during the day:confused:
 

Pete

Repete
couldnt he just delete any messages he sent during the day:confused:

Deleting messages is punishable by death or bodily injury. I go through his txt messages and recent calls list every couple days and I delete them. He is not allowed to delete stuff. But of course he can try.
 

lovinmaryland

Well-Known Member
Deleting messages is punishable by death or bodily injury. I go through his txt messages and recent calls list every couple days and I delete them. He is not allowed to delete stuff. But of course he can try.

What was the punishment for taking it to school? If he broke one rule he is could possibly break another :shrug:
 

Toxick

Splat
I'd say yes with the caveat that it is to remain OFF unless he needs to get in touch with you or someone in the event of an emergency. I don't even know what the rule is during school these days.



That's the rule I'd make as well. It stays off except for emergencies.



And if there's one thing kids are known for, it's for following the rules to the letter - especially if you're not around to keep an eye on them.
 

Pete

Repete
What was the punishment for taking it to school? If he broke one rule he is could possibly break another :shrug:

This is true, but I am an a-hole and he fears me. He may try to sneak it out one day unnoticed but when I told him about deleting things I gave him the googly eye homocidal maniac look.
 

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

Well-Known Member
Actually, many of us elderly individuals managed just fine without a cell phone and we WALKED fairly good distances to/from school...even elementary school. :yikes:

Ok?
That wasn't my point, at all.
Times change, for one, and my point was that if you are going to give a child a cell phone to make yourself feel better that they'll have it in emergency cases, then you really lose the stipulation that you'll take it away if they abuse it since then they'll be cellphone-less when that hypothetical emergency happens.
:shrug:
I was just saying that if you give it to them for emergencies, explain the rules but it will be a near-necessity to be lenient on the rules if you plan that your child have that phone for emergencies any time they aren't home.
:coffee:
 

Pete

Repete
depends on the school rule. if the rule is no phones, then no phone.

Students are allowed to possess operable
portable pagers (beepers), hand held portable
phones, personal digital assistants, and laptop
computers on school property.
School personnel including bus drivers
have the right to limit the use of electronic
communication devices that impede the
instructional climate in the school or
otherwise create a disturbance.
Portable pagers and portable phones may
be brought to school, but the use of cell
phones shall not be allowed during
instructional time or in any manner that
infringes upon the rights of other students or
staff members. In an exceptional
circumstance, a staff member may authorize
use of a cell phone for an appropriate reason.
These devices may be used after school hours,
with the permission of the supervising
teacher/staff member, including bus drivers.
Use of these devices during field trips and
other school-sponsored activities off school
grounds is subject to the same conditions at
the discretion of the supervising staff member.
The use of cell phone cameras shall not be
allowed on school property during
instructional time or in any manner that
infringes upon the rights of other students or
staff members.
PDAs and laptop computers may be used
during the instructional school day for
instructional purposes only, with teacher
knowledge and consent.
Improper use of any electronic device
may result in parent notification, confiscation
of the electronic device, revocation of
privilege, detention, in-school suspension,
Saturday School, and/or suspension.
 
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