Mig's Stalker Survival Thread
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Mig
I was just thinking about this. You know who the guy is and you know where he gets his vehicles. Call the dealership and speak to the owner and tell him/her what this loser is doing. I'm sure they won't want to be involved in any type of liability for their employee. It wouldn't hurt and it may just help.
I was just thinking about this. You know who the guy is and you know where he gets his vehicles. Call the dealership and speak to the owner and tell him/her what this loser is doing. I'm sure they won't want to be involved in any type of liability for their employee. It wouldn't hurt and it may just help.
watercolor
yeah yeah
Re: We should form a posse
Hey man!! that sounds kinda fun!
Hey man!! that sounds kinda fun!
watercolor
yeah yeah
Oh I know! they told me the same thing. I was like idiots...it could only take one time. RETARDS! I was like come on. You would think they could do a little more ya know.
Be Safe honey. Call me if you need ANYTHING!
migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
Weirdo Update
I get home later from work than I normally do yesterday (I am changing my routine) and there is a message on my answering machine (about the time I should have been home). No stalker in the yard, however he is on voice mail and he is as sweet as pie. "we should talk, give me a call" he says. As if. Last time I was on the phone with him, it was scary. He can whip out that split personality quick. I was thinking though I could do what Pixie suggested and try to turn the conversation around, but I don't know if I have a quick enough mouth to respond. He isn't here today - though he did do a driveby late last night he didn't stay. Soooo, is he giving up? Did my following him put the fear into him?
I get home later from work than I normally do yesterday (I am changing my routine) and there is a message on my answering machine (about the time I should have been home). No stalker in the yard, however he is on voice mail and he is as sweet as pie. "we should talk, give me a call" he says. As if. Last time I was on the phone with him, it was scary. He can whip out that split personality quick. I was thinking though I could do what Pixie suggested and try to turn the conversation around, but I don't know if I have a quick enough mouth to respond. He isn't here today - though he did do a driveby late last night he didn't stay. Soooo, is he giving up? Did my following him put the fear into him?
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OJsGuilty
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I think by you following him, and messing with him, might be leading him to believe that there might be an interest. I would not do those things with him.
How did this guy get your home number? I'm trying to piece this together, so am I guessing, that you had work done or bought a car from a dealership, he saw you, and has now been following you? I would suggest if this is the case that you just do what others have said already sid and call and speak to the owner and threaten to expose the fact that women are not safe going to his dealership because of an individual there that is privvy to personal information, and is stalking the clients. I'll bet the farm that this will make him stop. If's thats not good enough then call the police and have them show up at the dealership to have a talk with the boss and him.
Only a suggestion.
How did this guy get your home number? I'm trying to piece this together, so am I guessing, that you had work done or bought a car from a dealership, he saw you, and has now been following you? I would suggest if this is the case that you just do what others have said already sid and call and speak to the owner and threaten to expose the fact that women are not safe going to his dealership because of an individual there that is privvy to personal information, and is stalking the clients. I'll bet the farm that this will make him stop. If's thats not good enough then call the police and have them show up at the dealership to have a talk with the boss and him.
Only a suggestion.
migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
OJ - I had a date with him (thinking he was normal) and after the date (or rather during the date) he went "weirdo" and then sent me flowers the next day and so on and so on and so on. I followed him because he has been following me for a while and I figured turn about was fair play. I think by reversing the tables, I took away his power to intimidate. He has not come by at all yesterday or so far today. I have not returned the phone call. The "friends" who fixed us up (who I have already spoken to about his behavior) were told yesterday by him that he tried to call me to be friends, but I hung up on him. They said good, but I let them know I have caller id and haven't even been picking up the phone, and haven't hung up on him since the night he called and threatened to kill me (which was the same night I discovered that he had been following me for 3 weeks). So perhaps now, by losing his "power", by me changing my routine and being a more aggressive driver, etc etc. he is losing interest in what he once thought was an easy target. The reference to the car dealership is that he works at one and thereby was able to access diffferent vehicles to follow me in. However, that is no longer the case either. And if you have been following this thread, you would know I have already called the police and there is "nothing" they can or will do, until he causes me bodily harm. I personally I am not waiting around for that to happen.
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Heretic
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From what I have heard there are plenty of people in the tri-county area that can make him disappear.
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Beach Patrol
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I had a stalker - TWICE - two different idiots, at least I THINK it was two different idiots.
The first guy stalked me from college - about 2 years in all - but it was on/off. His VOICE sounded so familiar, but I could never place it. He always called me - late late late - like around 2am or something, and he'd proceed to tell me everywhere I went that day, who I saw, what I bought at the grocery store, etc. THAT freaked me out! Then he'd start talking some stupid sex crap & then I'd hang up. I wouldn't hear from him for a couple months, then the phone calls would start again. I normally would just hang up on the idiot to begin with, but I wanted to keep him on the line to try to get him to slip up & say something that would help me place who he was. But I could never figure it out. Then one time he called when my fiance was there, and when HE got on the phone & cussed him out, that's when the phone calls stopped for good.
The second time was just a one time thing. I was on a date with a guy I'd only been seeing for a couple months, nothing serious. One evening after a date, there was a ''note'' on my front door. It was very freaky & quite erotic! - had it not scared the hell out of me, I'd have found it a great turn-on! But it really did scare me & I had no idea who it was. I called the police & gave the note over to them, and that was basically the end of it.
I don't take lightly to stalkers. A guy I broke up with in my senior year who was very violent & abusive started stalking me after we split. I swore out a warrant for his arrest, and went over to tell ''his mama'' what kind of crazy crap he'd been up to. Stuff like threatening to kill my cat & hang its bloody body outside my bedroom window, etc. Well, I don't know if it was the law or his mama, but that crap ended pretty fast!
STALKERS - they are crazy. Don't take anything they say or say they'll do lightly. Your life could depend on it.
The first guy stalked me from college - about 2 years in all - but it was on/off. His VOICE sounded so familiar, but I could never place it. He always called me - late late late - like around 2am or something, and he'd proceed to tell me everywhere I went that day, who I saw, what I bought at the grocery store, etc. THAT freaked me out! Then he'd start talking some stupid sex crap & then I'd hang up. I wouldn't hear from him for a couple months, then the phone calls would start again. I normally would just hang up on the idiot to begin with, but I wanted to keep him on the line to try to get him to slip up & say something that would help me place who he was. But I could never figure it out. Then one time he called when my fiance was there, and when HE got on the phone & cussed him out, that's when the phone calls stopped for good.
The second time was just a one time thing. I was on a date with a guy I'd only been seeing for a couple months, nothing serious. One evening after a date, there was a ''note'' on my front door. It was very freaky & quite erotic! - had it not scared the hell out of me, I'd have found it a great turn-on! But it really did scare me & I had no idea who it was. I called the police & gave the note over to them, and that was basically the end of it.
I don't take lightly to stalkers. A guy I broke up with in my senior year who was very violent & abusive started stalking me after we split. I swore out a warrant for his arrest, and went over to tell ''his mama'' what kind of crazy crap he'd been up to. Stuff like threatening to kill my cat & hang its bloody body outside my bedroom window, etc. Well, I don't know if it was the law or his mama, but that crap ended pretty fast!
STALKERS - they are crazy. Don't take anything they say or say they'll do lightly. Your life could depend on it.
migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
Thanks Beach Patrol for the input. Glad I am not alone in the world of psychos. 
The problem I had with the local pd - is that it ain't their problem - they don't care. I know if I was back down there (or maybe anywhere else) the cops would have been all over him. I am however being a good girl, and following the rules and documenting everything. So, if / when anything happens...... However once again, I believe in preventive actions.
The problem I had with the local pd - is that it ain't their problem - they don't care. I know if I was back down there (or maybe anywhere else) the cops would have been all over him. I am however being a good girl, and following the rules and documenting everything. So, if / when anything happens...... However once again, I believe in preventive actions.AnonymousPenguin
Lead Penguin
Mig...
Sorry to hear about Mr. Psycho...
Unfortunately, there's more than a few of them out there.
Be strong...and don't show submission.... but on the same account, be safe. Some of these guys are just goofs but some of them are real psychos that will go to ANY extent.
Someone else suggested having another guy friend come over. I agree with that. Have a guy (preferably someone big and strong) come over to your place...and make it seem like he is your man.... Mr. Psycho will probably feel intimidated and lose interest....since he wants to see YOU (not YOU AND YOUR MAN)...
Have the guy friend answer his phone calls... I'm sure he won't want to speak to another dude.
I think that you mentioned him saying something to the extent of him killing you....
A THREAT like that should be grounds for a restraining order.... If the police department can't help you till you are harmed, what kind of protection are the citizens provided?....or does the protection come AFTER it's too late....
Block his number...
Sorry to hear about Mr. Psycho...
Unfortunately, there's more than a few of them out there.
Be strong...and don't show submission.... but on the same account, be safe. Some of these guys are just goofs but some of them are real psychos that will go to ANY extent.
Someone else suggested having another guy friend come over. I agree with that. Have a guy (preferably someone big and strong) come over to your place...and make it seem like he is your man.... Mr. Psycho will probably feel intimidated and lose interest....since he wants to see YOU (not YOU AND YOUR MAN)...
Have the guy friend answer his phone calls... I'm sure he won't want to speak to another dude.
I think that you mentioned him saying something to the extent of him killing you....
A THREAT like that should be grounds for a restraining order.... If the police department can't help you till you are harmed, what kind of protection are the citizens provided?....or does the protection come AFTER it's too late....
Block his number...
thakidistight
Wanker
Three year old thread.... 