More women and men stuff

[pixiegirl]

There's a lot of older guys dating way younger chicks in this area :shrug: More than I've seen in any other area, if we're going to be honest. Example, a couple my parents used to live next to... she's my age (29), he's my parents age (49). Gross is what I think it is... there is no way in hell I would EVER consider dating anyone my parent's age... but it's accepted as the norm around here :shrug:

It's one thing if its someone you're familiar with through friends, work, whatever; its another when you come across as a dirty old bastard.

You glazed over that part. I don't take issue with it at all. Grown people can do whatever they want BUT it amazes me when an older person approaches a younger person in an abrupt manner. That's what gives me the heebie geebies. It's one thing if it's an older person that you're familiar with that knows you actually have a personality; it's another when they have no clue and are just acting like horn dogs.

 

[Mojo]

It's one thing if its someone you're familiar with through friends, work, whatever; its another when you come across as a dirty old bastard.

You glazed over that part. I don't take issue with it at all. Grown people can do whatever they want BUT it amazes me when an older person approaches a younger person in an abrupt manner. That's what gives me the heebie geebies. It's one thing if it's an older person that you're familiar with that knows you actually have a personality; it's another when they have no clue and are just acting like horn dogs.

What exactly did he say?

 

[kris31280]

It's one thing if its someone you're familiar with through friends, work, whatever; its another when you come across as a dirty old bastard.

You glazed over that part. I don't take issue with it at all. Grown people can do whatever they want BUT it amazes me when an older person approaches a younger person in an abrupt manner. That's what gives me the heebie geebies. It's one thing if it's an older person that you're familiar with that knows you actually have a personality; it's another when they have no clue and are just acting like horn dogs.

IDK... I think anyone who's old enough to be my father hitting on me is a dirty old bastard. I see your point, though.

 

[vraiblonde]

What time should I send him over.

Can I get him this weekend? I have some furniture to move.

 

[cattitude]

Can I get him this weekend? I have some furniture to move.

Good luck with that.

 

[vraiblonde]

BUT it amazes me when an older person approaches a younger person in an abrupt manner.

I think it's skeevy for anyone of any age to approach in an abrupt manner. You're supposed to feel out the situation first, see if there's any interest or any impediments (such as a SO) before you go for it.

What'd the grocery guy say to you?

 

[DPA469]

IDK... I think anyone who's old enough to be my father hitting on me is a dirty old bastard. I see your point, though.

You do have to remember men are not the only ones that date out of their age limits! So is it ok for women to date younger guys?

Kris HAVE YOU OR HAVE YOU NOT BRAGGED ABOUT DATING A YOUNGER GUY? Although he may not have been 20 years younger or so, I do think you have bragged about you taking the "Cougar" status. :shrug:

 

[vraiblonde]

You do have to remember men are not the only ones that date out of their age limits! So is it ok for women to date younger guys?

Kris HAVE YOU OR HAVE YOU NOT BRAGGED ABOUT DATING A YOUNGER GUY? Although he may not have been 20 years younger or so, I do think you have bragged about you taking the "Cougar" status. :shrug:

That ####'s gross, too.

Plus you can't be a "cougar" until you're in your 40s. Some 22 yo dating a 19 yo isn't a cougar.

 

[pixiegirl]

He's probably pouting because Pixie dissed him in the grocery store.

 

[kris31280]

You do have to remember men are not the only ones that date out of their age limits! So is it ok for women to date younger guys?

Kris HAVE YOU OR HAVE YOU NOT BRAGGED ABOUT DATING A YOUNGER GUY? Although he may not have been 20 years younger or so, I do think you have bragged about you taking the "Cougar" status. :shrug:

#1, never bragged about it. Called him the boy toy.
#2, there's nothing wrong with men or women dating someone who's older or younger than them... but 20 years, for me personally, is too big of a stretch. It's silly to think everyone is going to be the exact same age range, but I'll go 10 years up or 5 years down. That being said, before you can throw my words back in my face, the boy toy was 20 when I met him and I was 28. By the time it was done, he was 21 and I was 29.
#3, Puma's are women in their late 20's, early 30's who date younger men, not Cougars.

 

[pixiegirl]

What exactly did he say?

I think it's skeevy for anyone of any age to approach in an abrupt manner. You're supposed to feel out the situation first, see if there's any interest or any impediments (such as a SO) before you go for it.

What'd the grocery guy say to you?

If you're wondering, yes I am following you.


I was in the produce section away from MK but walking back to where he and the babes were. Ick!

 

[Mojo]

If you're wondering, yes I am following you.


I was in the produce section away from MK but walking back to where he and the babes were. Ick!

That is pretty creepy

 

[cattitude]

That is pretty creepy

I'd have called the cops.

 

[smdavis65]

That is pretty creepy

 

[Dye Tied]

Most men I have dated were 10 or more years younger than myself. I have dated a few older, up to 14 years older. I guess it all depends on if there's an attraction because age really doesn't matter. :shrug:

 

[Radiant1]

Most men I have dated were 10 or more years younger than myself. I have dated a few older, up to 14 years older. I guess it all depends on if there's an attraction because age really doesn't matter. :shrug:

I prefer to view people as people not an age.

With that being said, however, Pixie's grocery stalker experience was definitely creepy no matter what the age.

 

[DPA469]

That ####'s gross, too.

Plus you can't be a "cougar" until you're in your 40s. Some 22 yo dating a 19 yo isn't a cougar.[/QUOTE]
Thank you because thats what I thought also.

 

[Dye Tied]

I prefer to view people as people not an age.

With that being said, however, Pixie's grocery stalker experience was definitely creepy no matter what the age.

Agreed, stalkers of any age are creepy.

 

[cattitude]

With that being said, however, Pixie's grocery stalker experience was definitely creepy no matter what the age.

Good Lord, *perhaps* he was just being sarcastic.

:muchadoaboutnothing:

 

[smdavis65]

#1, never bragged about it. Called him the boy toy.
#2, there's nothing wrong with men or women dating someone who's older or younger than them... but 20 years, for me personally, is too big of a stretch. It's silly to think everyone is going to be the exact same age range, but I'll go 10 years up or 5 years down. That being said, before you can throw my words back in my face, the boy toy was 20 when I met him and I was 28. By the time it was done, he was 21 and I was 29.
#3, Puma's are women in their late 20's, early 30's who date younger men, not Cougars.

I think they'd be more like Bobcats than Pumas.